do you ever let down your friends?

Indonesia
November 12, 2010 1:04pm CST
Forgetting someone who have done good to us something that is hateful attitude. Against this attitude a series of words will be presented, such as: Do not know themselves, will not forget peanut skin, not know lucky,ungrateful, use and throw, etc.. contrast with this attitude, someone who knows grateful or thankful for is people who never forget the people who have helped and do good to him, and trying to do good in return for kindness received, and not just to those who have done good to us, but also to all people, have you let down your friends?
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11 responses
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 11
I had some time to feel disappointed by my friend, this is very fair happens in friendship. Depending on we deal with every problem that exists. Common misunderstanding. For me, the most important thing is always conscious and respectful of us, openness is everything to get a good friendship.
• Indonesia
12 Jan 11
Ever, but. afterward he would apologize to me. And I really understand why they like that, so far the friend who let me down because they have a logical and good reasons, then I could understand even though the liver is sick too
• Singapore
13 Nov 10
Nope, and I will not ever do that. Most of my friends are kind souls. They are willing to help me, concerned with my studies and stuff. I've always believed in gratefulness and with that, I will not ever let those who have been kind to me, down.
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
13 Nov 10
I guess probably I let down to my family,But to my friends i always been kind and nice and patient,One of my friend told me in this wrold"there are big ship and small ship,but the best ship is friendship"I think it's right.Nowdays friends cheats friends,against friends.I feel sorry for that,We all should learn how to cherish our friendship
@Sanitary (3969)
• Singapore
13 Nov 10
Yes, i do let down my friends at times too. Especially when it comes to relationship problems, i tend to turn a deaf ear to their advices til to extend of them wanting to give up on me. I'm just too soft hearted while my friends want me to be stronger in my stand. I'm still learning, hopefully i won't let them down again, and fulfil their expectations of me, when i say i can do it.
@joysantos (132)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
As much as possible I make it a point to not let them down. But sometimes I can't give all what they want. so I end up disappointing them. but as friends, we learn how to understand each other.
@shia88 (4582)
• Malaysia
13 Nov 10
Hi, I hope I never let down my friends,which I don't want to do it so. I know that some friends can be trusted,but some are just treat you as friends when they need your help,after that,they won't go and bother you when you need their help. Thos kind of friends are not a real friends and for sure, I won't get close to them again. I better not to contact them that often as there is no point to have friendship with such kind of friends.
• El Salvador
13 Nov 10
well i think everyone let down some friends from time to time but is not becouse you want to or at least most of the people. It's becouse you can't think exactly has your friends do. The same way around they may desapoint you but still comunication is the key just talk it out and fix it.
• United States
12 Nov 10
Letting down my friends comes only with years of trust. I would let them know that their decision is not a good one, or what they are thinking is wrong, only if I've known them and can trust them. Belittling friend, and letting them down only happens when we are joking or trying to have fun with each other. In such instances, we know that such comments against each other are purely for fun. We tend not to make such comments severe or very bad in nature, and always give respect when due. When it all comes down to listening, it can easily be noticed if a friend is speaking pleasantly and knowingly.
• Indonesia
12 Nov 10
to my knowledge, I never disappoint my friend because a friend is a natural part of life, because if our lives do not have a friend then our lives will become useless and a wasted life time, and if we have a friend we can make friends It became a good friend and can be believed by us, and if we are to own a friend, if we have a problem we can deliberate with friends ..... and that's what we have a friend and the friend could be the one to two which will make us become a useful person in this world ....
@saqi78 (1405)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 10
Well, I always tend to help my friends and any one who come to me, if it is in my reach then I tried to help him. I am well aware of this attitude of different people but I dont care of any thing, whether s/he ll help me in future or not, I just help him because I am in position to do that. My friends always tell me that dont do like this, because it ll hurt you and I know some time it really hurt, when some one I helped in past come in front of me and behave like s/he does not know me, but still I have my own nature and I cannot stop my self to help. I never complain or told some body that I have done this thing for you, so you should be grateful for me but in my mind, if you are helping some one, the reward is with God and people cannot give you reward...:) But on the other hand, I always remember a friend or helper who helped me a little in my life time, not only me but if s/he helped my family, I ll always give respect to him and ll always ready to help them. So I think you are right, we should not forget our helper and always tend to help them and give them respect...:) Have a nice day...