Do You Want That Your Partner Should Have Similar Qualities Like Yours?

Hmm it'll be good if I can find a partner like that. But now it's hard to find someone like that. In my country or should I say, in every country, almost every girl are already attached and are or were in a relationship. Very few have the qualities that I go for or the same as mine. Well, if I were find someone like that, who knows all my likes and dislikes and also I know hers as well, then the relationship will last very long and I'll be really happy.

I think it's better if my partner is a bit different than me. But we of course need some of the same qualities, but I think difference is best for a relationship, if you want it to last forever.

Before, my ideal partner is someone I have similar traits with. I found someone like that but our relationship didn't work out. Right now, I am married with someone who has a lot of opposite traits from me but we are managing to meet in the middle. We have learned to adjust with each other behavior.

well if we have much similarity, that would be good. but that does not means that we just like twins in personality. everybody have an iniquity. too many differences could make us strong or in other way could make us weak.it is all depends on someone.

I think that having similar qualities in two people is near to impossible. And I think specially getting two people with similarities and that too of opposite is gender is very difficult. Understanding comes with trust and giving time to each other in a relation. There are a number of people who have similar tastes but they don't get along well with each other, and I know a lot of people who are completely different than each other and they are quite inseparable. So according to me it doesn't really matter to possess same qualities as other person in a relation. Rather I believe in "Opposite Attract".

Yeah. I like partners whom I can relate with. It's easier to connect with them. It's like you're thinking the same thing all the time. But it quite boring. It may be fun at first. I think I'll try the other way around. Opposites attract too right? It's much more challenging. I'll try it and take the risk.

No, there are no two people that can have similar charatceristics, in marriage, given that we usually marry unrelated people, it would foolhardy of you to even dream of getting some one with similar qualities. What happens in marriage is that the two people tolerate their differences and if the differences are so big, they part ways!

Yes it is true. Life gets easy if partners have similar characters/ qualities. Mutual respect and understanding play basic role in a good partnership. If couple has different qualities they will not agree on a single point, they will disagree with each other and such thing will cause the bad luck for both members of the couple. They should think same, they should like same things, and they should dislike the same ways and same things. Such qualities, characters cause to have a successful partnership life.

The main issue in your discussion is about whether a couple can work together or not. We can hide our weakness for a while but not for the whole life. A couple can know if they can communicate and work together or not after a period of dating. Qualification wise, normally the husband or the Man should be higher than the Wife or the Lady. This is what I think.

i think that life would be that little easier if you shared the same qualities and interets as each-other, then your not doing something you don't want to as you know that your interet are the same so whatever your partner does you would be happy. Im sure that we could always find a weakness but the love and trust that you have would bring you through the weaknesses. I guess i would appreciate my partner (if i had one) for just being them, that is all that really matters to me. I know that they will be being themselves and that is who i would have fell in love with, good qualities or bad, the person is still the same person that you fell in love with.

yes in a way as i would like to be able to talk to my partner so he has to be a good listener which i am

I want a partner who is different from me in a lot of ways. I think it would be too boring to have someone exactly like me. Like get your own opinions already! I must say that I didn't like how my ex-boyfriend would stay mad at me for weeks at a time whereas I always get very angry but it blows over in a matter of minutes or hours. So maybe I'd like someone who never got mad or got mad like me instead. I want someone stronger than me so I can lean on them and count on them. I'd like an optimist not a pessimist like me. I want my foil.

It's good to have partner that have the same qualities as we are but come to think of it, what if your negative traits collide, what do you think will happen? I think there will be advantages and disadvantages on this issue. Good if you are both nice, and quiet and all the good and positive traits. But when it comes to negative traits, well, you have to work it out haha or else, a world war in your relationship might happen. It will be depending on how the two will handle the relationship even if they have different traits, so to say, right? have a good day!

It's not necessarily that you and your partner have same similarities. I guess it'll become quite boring. Partners should be opposite in some way, different in likes and dislikes.

Hi Akrao24! I think you post an interesting topic here. Well, there's a saying that opposites attract. But sometimes its human nature that you get along with people whom you have similar qualities and interests. The more you connect with those people the more you tend to spend time with them. Regarding having the same bad qualities, I guess if you have the same bad qualities you don't even consider bad as you yourself are having the same traits. If they do things the way you do, then you dont look at it as bad at all. Partners in crime, if I may say it. I generally believe that although you tend to cling with those with similar qualities but sometimes it will allow you to be kinda interested in those people doing things that you are not really familiar at all. That's when curiousity sets in. That's when you think ok things could be done and be viewed this way. Personally, for me for friends its easy that you mingle with those whose qualities are similar as yours. But I would be interested in spending time with somebody who views the world different as I see it. I hope you find something interesting in what I've just said. Happy mylotting!

It is a nice thing to have similar interests as a partner. for me, it is not a requirement. Having differences keeps you in tune with a partner. if you only shared the same qualities, where would some of the attraction and desire for a partner be?