Why are certain men abusive?

Men that are under stress are normally emotional even violent. The question is why are men being stressed. If nothing or no one give stress to men, men will remain as gentlemen as they can be. Many things can turn a man into a beast, one of them is the habit of women to be selfish and buy expensive things when money is not that much. Another habit is when women fail to get up early in the morning and the father is all that's working by the kitchen or when their maid has not cooked the food excellently. So before women say out loud how bad men are, they should look at their selves first.

I don't know. And even if there are really that kind here, they won't say it completely to this discussion. Things like this are better researched than being asked in the open.

in my experience it's both men and women can be abusive in many ways like another responder said, stand up against them if you are abused If they hit you, fight back. if they abuse you verbally, say something. I did this and they stopped abusing me, all except one who is mentally ill of course he didn't know what he was doing. some bullies at school I didn't get back at them I was outnumbered and I was a sickly child, but funny thing is they were bullied in another school I could have gotten something sharp dealing with bullies in group, but that would put me in jail I wouldn't know what abusive people feel when they abuse someone I never abused anyone although I could be harsh verbally just because I don't want to be a liar the only time I can understand it's hard to fight back is when you work and your boss is abusive, sometimes the law takes big people's side

Because they are also reach in violent homes or have a lot of exposure to violence at early age especially if the kind of person or group whom they associate with it conceited on liking violence activities so likely when a child grow up he would also be violent if not properly guided. While those who hit women have sort of insecurities develop within them selves and with a sense of pride when they act as authoritarian or over possessive while batter women just grown with that type of man because they tolerate it or because of so much love they are willing to be end up as punching bag which in my case i would not highly tolerate..

Some psychologists says that,it is due to their childhood experience or environment influences. But,one thing is very specific,men abuses women because women let the men abused them. Never let anyone abuse you and no one will ever abuse you ever. It's a two way process...if you let people abuse you,you will always be abused. But,if you will never let anyone abuse you...no one will ever abuse you either.