Will you leave your present partner if you found someone better than him/her?

@arielbsn (199)
Philippines
November 19, 2010 8:49pm CST
Hi mylotters, I want to get your opinion regarding this topic, as for me, I wouldn't leave my current partner because of third party, unless she cheated me or if she made an affair with someone.
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12 responses
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
At one point or another in our life, we would always meet someone whom we think is much better than our partner. If this is gonna be the basis of every relationship, we will keep on changing our partners for another.
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• India
20 Nov 10
Welcome to mylot Lol my answer is a big, 'nooooo', we marry once, ones life partner is not cloth or house , that you change, she is wife to me, not a woman, who lives with me in a 'sweet-home', not a house .. Thank you so much for this discussion. Professor. . Cheers have a great day ahead. God bless you. Welcome always.
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@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
Dont you think liking another person is already a form of cheating? I mean, if it was an affair they are having then you have all the reasons to leave him or her. But as for couples, they should not look at other men or women anymore.
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@maean_19 (4661)
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
Of course, why risk on something you are not sure of. Unless, you have reasons to leave your present partner, then take the risk to have a new relationship with someone better. But if the only reason that leads you to leave your partner is because you found someone better, I think that is too petty. I mean, how would you know that he is better? For me, a guy who is at first have interest in you always put their foot forward to make an impression. But, I believe that their true self will only appear when you are together. More so, you truly know someone when you are living in one roof.
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@tokwa99 (92)
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
im scared to be hurt, thats love, if you love someone you'll be hurt and that's part of a relationship. but there should be an understanding with your partner. And if someone commits a mistake try to analyze and forgive them, i do believe the in good or bad karma, it will depend how you handle your relationship
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@Karunvig (714)
• India
20 Nov 10
I will not for sure...
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@Ritmon (119)
20 Nov 10
of course not,because i am happy with my life partner and i don't allow anyone in my heart as a partner,if any one can't control his attraction,in future he might be in trouble cause of third person..... so, be happy with your present partner...am i right??
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• Indonesia
20 Nov 10
leave her right away..because it is clear that she's cheating you. Don't expect a lot from her again
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@calpro (933)
• India
20 Nov 10
There is no end If we start searching for better person. One looks better than the other. As you said If the current partner cheated then you have to certainly leave him/her. Just for petty things If we start losing our relationship then there is no point calling it a relationship. In my opinion love your partner like no one ever loves him/her in this entire world. Naturally it will be reciprocated. Good Luck
@shia88 (4582)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 10
Hi, For sure...my answer is NO. I won't left my partner for another person ,be it,that person is very good and kind to me. I love my life partner alot and we have been going through hardship together and since I have choose him as my life partner,why should I turn myself to another man? I have to be fair and honest to him and try to be a good wife for him. I also don't want my husband to betray me,so never betray my own husband too.
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@louievill (21689)
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
I don't think i will ever find anyone that will take the place of my wife, she's younger than me, very pretty and sexy and loyal, she takes care of the kids and the house very well, she has no vices,does not swear, nag, smoke drink or gamble,or stay out late, helps me in my business and my finances, just keeps quiet when im upset, she cooks very very well, and lately i asked her to go ahead and eat with the children when i am out, you see when we did not have children yet she refuses to eat not unless im home ( a typical trait of Filipina country lass), so you see pal i never entertain that thought on my mind and just focus on how to provide the best for my family.
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• China
20 Nov 10
no ,I will not do such kind of thing!How could I know that she is better for my boyfriend,I wouldn't be such inconfident!but if my boyfriend ask me to break up,I will let it go!but if we still love each other ,I'll never give up!
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