" its better to have loved and forgotten then never to have loved at all"

India
November 22, 2010 11:31am CST
well, how many of you can relate with that quote. Do you think "loving someone and leaving them when the love is gone is better or to have never loved anybody and have no heartache at all is more appealing?. Just wondering and will be glad to hear your views on that..
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• United States
23 Nov 10
To be honest the love and the beatings I had in my life I would choose to not have experienced them at all. it would not have made a bit of differance to me at this point. That kind of love damages a perosn for the rest of their life. Not everyone can make it out of such situations a strong person.
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• India
25 Nov 10
I am sorry that you had to face that... Maybe something nice Will good along..
• Philippines
25 Nov 10
If you won't experience heartache, you will not know the wonderful feeling of being in love. For me, I'd rather feel the feeling of being in love even if the guy doesn't reciprocate rather than not loving someone at all. I am the kind of person who can love without asking the other person to love me back. As long as he allows me to show him how I feel, I can be happy with that. I'm in that situation right now. And though it really hurts somehow, I don't regret it. I just want to be happy for a while. Then maybe someday, I will learn to forget that person and be able to forget this feeling too.
• India
25 Nov 10
I think you have a very good positive outlook on life and I couldn't agree with you more. I can say that you are a strong person and knows himself/herself well..
@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
i don't really agree to this quote. if you love someone, when you love, you should know what are the possibilities..you should be mature and responsible enough for your actions..leaving someone when love is gone is somewhat selfish yet right..however, leaving her with all the pain is better.. for me, it is better to be hurt, and stand up again..they are experiences that we should treasure and at the very least we have explored the mysteries of love..but it is not good that when you leave her when you do not love her anymore, since she became a part of your life.. not loving at all is a play safe decision for me.. you just keep yourself from love not be like someone else who had suffered a lot.. but that action made you a coward and a loser..
• India
25 Nov 10
well, I think love is love. You never know how to love properly until you actually gets hurt a bit.
@Hatley (164507)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Nov 10
substance neither one is good in my eyes, its painful t o love somone and not be loved back by that someone, but of course if you have never loved at all then you are hollow inside and hurt very much knowing what you are misssing and not finding anyone to love. you have to have someone become interested in you and that will lead to a mutual love. /em]
• India
25 Nov 10
I think its worth it after all you will have some good memories even if nothing comes out of that. You will be happy that you loved him/her at one time... After all the world is livable just because of the "love" we give into it and at one point it all comes back to you,.
• Mexico
23 Nov 10
Hi substance: I think so but I think at the same time that love is a really difficult thing and you will never be prepared for a sad situation like this. When someone leave you or when you realize that love has gone, well that's an horrible feeling but we can't deny that love give us the most valuable and amazing experiences in our lives. ALVARO
• India
25 Nov 10
Ya, But If its meant to be, it will be no matter how hard the situations is.. And Love is eternal and it is what makes us 'human"
• India
22 Nov 10
Well i have to agree and disagree on what you said just now. I am sure that being loved or loving someone gives you a great feeling but you know what? Sometimes it's better to be alone only. That way no one can hurt you. I am not so sure that love is what all they show in television and movies that happens to us. It's more than that. It's about sacrifice and compromise and more. Everyone is loved by someone else. They just have time or they need to have some time to find out who did. Cheers!
• India
25 Nov 10
you nailed it. Love is all about compromises and loyalty and understanding. And when you find the right one who equally loves you back, you have found your life..
@Xansus (950)
• Bulgaria
22 Nov 10
I Agree and Dissagree :P Yes its something special but yet if you feel it once and not for the rest of your life i don't agree , cuz i felt it and i want to feel it again but if i don't have that chance i as well think it was better to not fell in love at all .
• India
25 Nov 10
I remember a song that says " You have never lived until you loved with all your love and soul" and its so true and I can honestly say I have lived"...
• Greece
22 Nov 10
A human being should experience all sorts of things before they die. And love is an experience, sometimes a good one, and others, a bad one. Love can never be forgotten though or vanish, it's still there but resurfaces at the right time and person, but maybe it's not as strong a feeling as it was before. Still, love is only an aspect of our lives. If we concetrate on it solely, it becomes more of an obssesion, rather an enriching feeling.