How do you feel when you're being left...?

i left my wwife to work at japan. i left friday and we only knew that a week before i left. but work is still work we both feel sad for we are going to celebrate christmas away form each other and i am sure my son will be missing me so much but we need to sacrifice for lucky for me that i still have work after a lot of people are looking for one. i started a discussion regarding me leaving and a lot of mylot members said that the commnication through text messaging and computer communication has come a long way already. so no need to be sad. the feeling will subside. goodluck.

I feel this - EMPTY . Overall thats it - sadness , dissapointment and the rest are just around it but all i feel is empty .

I think it is totally natural for you to miss the one you love. When the ideal is to see each other and be available for each other every day and every night, it is hard when one is away. I used to travel a fair amount for my job and I know my wife missed me. I also missed her (but probably not enough, or in the same way). Overtime I think she came to accept it as necessary, not that she liked it. Let your feelings of loneliness or sadness be a reminder to you that when a couple has to be apart sometimes, they must work extra hard to keep their love relationship strong. Absence may make the heart grow fonder, for a while, but then hearts get distracted.

Yes friend. I know what you feel. It's hard to cope up when you were left behind by your loved one especially when you are being together for such a long time. You are always looking for his presence.