how do you tell her?

November 30, 2010 8:06pm CST
if you love a woman so bad that you cant live without her, how would you tell her?? how do you overcome the fear of being rejected? how do you manage rejection?
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6 responses
@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
If you're like 100% sure that she likes you in a more-than-friends way, then tell her that you love her. Don't tell her that you can't live without her because it's like you're pressuring her. Just be gentle and sweet. If you think that there's more than a 10% chance that she'll reject you, then don't tell her at all
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
I do agree with you. As a man you can sense it too. Just take notice of your friends reactions when you're together, if everything is well then have courage to express it. To try and fail is not failure, failure is when you fail to try. Whatever the decision be remain friends and because you might not know what happens ahead.
@Ritmon (118)
1 Dec 10
If you love a woman then at first no need to tell her, just try to express your feelings,if after a long time she can't feel your situation then try to show your love with words....i think its better....are you agree with me???
@nobbsy123 (851)
• Australia
1 Dec 10
I would tell her. That way you don't die wondering what she will say. You will know where you stand with her and also she will know how you feel. Even if it shocks her she may come around and it is a risk worth taking doing nothing you will lose her when she finds someone else, I'm sure you don't want that to happen.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
1 Dec 10
Hi, As a man ,you should have the courage to express out your feeling for someone that you love and like, You have to be brave and get yourself up to express your feeling.Be it ,the woman will accept or reject you, you have to stand in the firm postion and respect her decision. At first, you make your first approach to be friend with her,get to know her better and show your cares for her. As you get to know her better and roughly know her well, you will have feeling whether she like you or not, then find a best time to express out your feeling. If she like you too, for sure, she will accept you . But if she rejected you,then respect her decision and hope she will find the best man for herself. DO you ever heard of this proverb : loving someone does not mean you have to be with her.
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
Just tell her how you feel. Don't worry about rejection. You'll learn how to deal with it afterwards.
• Australia
1 Dec 10
Fear is the one thing that holds us from our dreams,it is the stepping stone from going forward or staying where we are. No woman,person or thing is as important as self for without stregnth in oneself you have nothing . Face your fear and experience what life has to give you,there are no failures.