We live in different places...what should we do

December 1, 2010 3:45am CST
my GF and me live in different ,we can only meet when we both have time ... every time she send a message to me that she miss me ,and she want to be together with me ,i feel really sorry ,for this is her first time to be in love ...next time she say to me that she miss me ,what should i do ....
4 responses
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
When a girl loves for the first time, she is actually giving out her full love out - without any reservations. That is why I think you should be careful with that. If you really love her, take time to spend some quality moments with her...
2 Dec 10
yes ,thank you really
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
i guess she has to understand (and you have to explain) that this is not the right time for you to be together simply because circumstances just won't allow... i'm in the same situation right now, and we both have no choice but to just hold on to the relationship...and i know time will come we'll have our own apartment and we'll live under the same roof together, but for now, we just have to concentrate on our duties and responsibilities, and keep saving for that dream apartment...
2 Dec 10
yes , we all are in same situation , the process of missing and waiting for getting together may be painful ,but also full of love ,happiness . May you two and we two all happy ,
@Monkeyrose (2840)
• Canada
2 Dec 10
that is really hard but wait it out. My brother was in the same situation and they rushed to get married. Now they are getting a divorce.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Dec 10
earl at least modern times gives you a lot of ways to s tay connecteds even if you and she c annot always be together and skype lets you talk to her so be as loving as you can and maybe even send some snail mail assuring her she is still your love just try to stay in touch whatever way you can as she is reallymissing you.