Good-looking guy with bad attitude or Bad-looking guy with good attitude?

Philippines
December 2, 2010 1:19am CST
Honestly, being true to myself, I would rather choose the good-looking guy with bad attitude, lol! Really, I believe that I can still change his ways by my charm. Who would you choose?
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@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
10 Dec 10
Bad looking guy with good attitude. I usually go for smart guys, and most of the time they're really not that good looking, but it grows on you. I didn't think my current bf was good-looking when I first met him, but now I think he is :3
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• United States
5 Dec 10
No one can change a person who doesn't want to change. I would prefer the bad looking guy. No one is pretty enough for me to deal with a bad attitude . I will end up hating Everything about him. But with the bad looking guy, I will get used to what he looks like. Let's put it this way, A bad looking guy can become beautiful, can you say plastic surgery, faster Than an a$$hole can decide to change and Remain changed!
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@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
2 Dec 10
Personality always beats looks for me, because your personality is something you have for your entire life, while looks can fade as you get older. So the good attitude one for me!
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@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
I'm gonna chose the Good-looking guy with bad attitude. why? Because my husband is like that, (^_^) And do agree that you can change his bad attitude because I did.. :)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Hello gracielle! Yeah, that is what my husband at first as well, he's got vices I don't like and so I told him that I will say yes to him if he will stop those things, and he did! We are married for 7 years now, cheers!
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Your husband maybe not as bad looking like a monster or uranggutang that is why you can take it. How is it if the face of your husband is like a terrorist, monkey, pirate, or crocodile look? Can you sleep with him, kiss with him take for the rest of your life? Maybe it depend also on how bad looking a person is.
@gunagohan (3415)
• India
2 Dec 10
This reveals that u are discriminating the bad looking guy...Oh no !!! No one is looking bad, everything stays inside the heart..A guy is decided to be good or bad by his way of living and behavior and not by his way of external appearance.. There are lots of girls available in this planet and i will get a one for my own look and i guess, i have a proper behavior towards someone who is behaving good to me.. I'm sorry, i will never change myself by any girl's charm..Not only me, no guy would change his behavior by any girl's charm....
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Hello gunagohan! I am sorry you feel that way, I appreciate your comment though and it is very humbling to have your response on this, not many guys/men open up with their feelings. That is so pure of you, cheers!
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@chavezrmc (5552)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
well, you are right, we can try to influence people around us that include a guy with good face that has a bad character and changing to a better character. its a lot of challenge and and its worth the try. I will do the same thing as you would like to do but then i would give myself enough time to try to change him. But sure an individual has his own and if i cant influence him to go better then i have to do the right action.
@cream97 (29168)
• United States
2 Mar 11
Hi. frenzylady. I would rather just choose the bad looking guy with a good attitude. I am more impressed with a guy's attitude. If his attitude is decent, his face will begin to be attractive to me. Why?? Because I see his heart, and that is more beautiful than anything.
@Pitgull (1523)
• United States
21 Dec 10
You do not love people because you can change them. It defeats the purpose. You love people for themselves--their strengths and their weaknesses. What I ask myself is this: Can I live with him the way he is now? If you answer no, then you should not be with him. If you answer yes, then it can work. We do not want to be changed (aside from the betterment of ourselves), so we cannot expect another person to change for us. I can be charming as heck, but eventually, people will show their true colors. Ultimately, you have to decide if you can live with it, or if you want more out of life than a pretty face. Happiness, love, and truth are more important to me than anything else.
• United States
6 Dec 10
I would pick the good looking guy with the bad attitude lol. I also believe I could change his attitude :) Haha!
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Well, I think there's no bad or good attitude to me. It just depends if I will like his PERSONALITY. There are instances that we may like bad attitudes. Like when a guy is fighting with another guy over you. LOL It's immature but I think that's sweet. But personally, I'd pick the bad-looking guy with good attitude IF I like his personality. It's hard to explain. LOL. Because sometimes good attitudes are not good, like if he's too nice, h might be fooled by other people or something. You know what I mean, I'm into personality. Like if a guy is nice but he's confident enough but not arrogant and if he's emotionally and mentally mature. Like that personality.
• India
2 Dec 10
I dont know for what reasons you are calling the second person as bad looking. Looks, beauty are all relative. To me a person becomes more attractive ones I find him more nice and a good attitude. Anyways may vary from person to person. Blindly going by you question would go for the second option. All the charm and the looks fade away after the flowery days. once you are married you never bother whether your husband is smart or not but if he is not nice it will definetly bother you. :) Just my two cents.
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
It is hard to change bad attitude.Bad looking face can be changed nowadays because of high technology and if you have enough money. So I choose bad looking guy with good attitude.
@thanks1961 (7049)
• India
2 Dec 10
Hi dear, I am always with you in this regard. I think I commented on this subject earlier also. I like to go for the good looking one and I am sure that I can change the nature of the person to an extent. Where as if we have a the other way, we never can change the ugly to a beautiful one, buy or hard work or we never can change the look of a person even if it is a girl or boy. So, what we can do, go for it. Thank-s
@shia88 (4582)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 10
Hi, For me...personality is very important..as for look, it is not that important for me. I will choose for bad looking guy with good attitude. ALthough the outside looks is bad,but as long as he has a good heart,caring and full of responsibility, I will be happy enough. Look can be changed...he can just go for surgery to change his look better.