Why do relatives wants to be special? Do you agree?

Philippines
December 3, 2010 10:55am CST
if your family is too close with each other why do they like to be prioritize or why do they want to be special. personally i have troubles with my relatives because they wanted to be special for example my mom is having her birthday and she invited her close friends first. My relatives especially on my father's side wants their invitation first and also when the party began, they want to be entertained first. I really felt really bad when one of my mother's side relative arive and the invitation stab is for one person only but when that relative arrive she brought seven people that we don't know! how rude right?!
2 responses
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
I guess they're just hurt cuz they weren't invited first. Of course, when you're inviting people, your relatives will be expecting you to send them the first invites before sending to friends and colleages.
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
but the thing is they wanted to be part of the entourage and they say they wanted to help but the truth is they just want to criticize regarding your work and put you down. me and my 3 sister were the ones who planned the wedding and we prepared everything for 3weeks because my other sister will be going to New zealand the day after that wedding. so we hurried the preparation so that our family will be complete. One of our cousin informed my relatives and told them they should not attend the wedding! it is like she is not educated with that action right?
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Why inform your cousin, which is also your relative, in the first place? Of course he's going to say something about it to your other relatives.
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
because if we don't inform one of the, they will be more angry at us. Thank you fr the comment gladly appreciated ^_^
@joystick (1680)
4 Dec 10
There will always be people like that in a family even if they are not that close.I feel that there are people that have had more of an education, as well as money help from their parents to get to where they are now.Then there are people like me that have had to work for all i have got and never ask for a hand out.