When our heart deceive our feelings? How?

@visavis (5945)
Philippines
December 4, 2010 1:04am CST
They say our heart is liar and hard. I think yes our heart is liar, sometime it is hard and difficult to know what is really want. When I was still single I have penpal for almost 2 years always my heart told me I love here and want her, so in all my letters, telephone call was from my heart, but one day suddenly change and like forgot in my heart, I don't know why? Did you experienced such feeling and heart changes? Do you believe that heart and feeling sometime not sync? Our feeling decieve our heart or vice versa.... Share to us your experience and opinion... see you around
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10 responses
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
i beg to disagree with your thought of our hearts became a liar. if you thought and came to decision or choice to lie, then within you and yourself you are lying and you also was the one who deceives yourself. and like a domino effect, what your choice or decision will also be the result of it. i guess, what you had felt, was just knowing and feeling of being inlove, but loving the feeling of it. you just need to feel it towards your penpal, to make it more convincing although your the one who was deceiving by work. so, be true to yourself in every little thing you do, to prevent deceiving yourself and your identity. :)
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Owww, hmmm, you mean our heart never lie, I don't think so.. Let say our mind dictate something lei in our heart, our heart never tell such lei instead will change it to right one. I know heart is only receiving what the dictate of mind and feelings but if such thing are wrong, heart will do... see you around
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Actually, the heart never lies. What you fee is what you feel indeed. The mind may sometimes mislead you for your thoughts gives you the wrong feeling. Let's give this as an example. You love someone. You know that for a fact. But just because this person is not someone that would fit your status, you would let go of that feeling. You are making a decision not to love that person. But you never can deny the truth that you are in love. That simply shows that LOVE indeed do not lie.
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Sorry. I mean "That simply shows that the HEART indeed do not lie.".
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Thanks to you views but not agree with you that heart never lies.. In your example you used mind and feelings the two who dictate to the hearts, if wrong thing flows to our heart our heart flown it to ourself. If such thing was wrong we cannot say becuase it is dictate our mind and feeling but said from our heart. In the bible says whatever in our heart mouth speak.... see you around
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
It's irrelevant whether the heart lies, because it was not made to think only to feel. there are things that we tend to listen from the mind or from the heart. of course, when the relationship is wrong and the heart feels right, that's the time you use you're head
• United States
4 Dec 10
I don't think our heart is really a liar, but in our brains we think we want something, but in reality we don't. I don't think it really has anything to do with our heart.
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
May be our heart is not really liar in reality because only recieving information from mind and feelings.... see you around
@Shavkat (19802)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
Love plays a vital role of knowing what really desires. It can never a true love to let the heart pulled back for the person we thought that it is real. I might had this experience, fall out of love due to different angle of loving someone. To some extent, it can never work out.
@Hatley (134883)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Dec 10
visavis I do not think so as when I feel something in my heart I know it is true as I am a truthful person and what I feel in my heart I dp trust. My feelings can change a l ittle but not my heart. No my heart and my feelings are always in sync. I have loved in my heart and my sou ld and that love lasted 33 years.We sometimes deceive our selves but if its heartfelt by me its real.
• United States
4 Dec 10
it is important to recognize that desires can make a person believe anything. the enemy is desire. simply because a person may want something, they will overlook even the truth in order to get what they desire. it is not necessarily the heart is bad, but one must think accordingly when they choose to act. that is why the ancients have stressed about having wisdom, knowledge and understanding. it is more important that we know who we are, and want to know our own self...than it is to want to know someone else. get to know yourself first...as we grow something we may have liked before we will no longer like because we have grown, and learned new things. as we learn new things, what we knew before that seems outdated. so more important than anything...get to know who you are, and what you really like and dont like.
• United States
4 Dec 10
Heat can be deceiving sometimes. I just feel you got over her, thats all. And there is nothing wrong with that. A love which does not work for you must go so the universe grants you the love that must lit up your life. I experience some bizarre stuff sometimes. I am in a very happy relationship, but sometimes in my dream I find myself cheating on my boyfriend. I have zero tolerance towards cheating behavior. But I just don't get why I do this in my dreams. It simply makes no sense to me.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
4 Dec 10
I have never known my heart to be a liar to me. Sometimes we are deceived by our feelings because we don't want to see what is really there. The heart will show us the truth whether it is something we can accept or not.
@hanni711 (243)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
When I was a teenager I also experienced to have that feeling of being inlove as if my world revolve around that person. But in the end we just parted ways because we're not mature enough to handle our feelings. Now, we have our own family and I am happy and bless with my husband and kids. I think what you mean is that when we become too emotional and we begin to neglect to be balance with our feelings that's when the problem arise. We just can't go on to a relationship with our emotions alone.I believe feelings change because it goes with our maturity also. That's why alot of teenage lovers part ways in the end.
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
4 Dec 10
I... don't really get what you're saying because of the poor grammar, sorry.