have you ever tried to have long distance relationship?

Philippines
December 4, 2010 5:54am CST
ive tried it twice..that was really really hard..
15 responses
@annierose (18926)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
hi mutya, I agree with you about having a long distance relationship is really hard. I am in this kind of relationship for 3 years now. We almost broke up before our anniversary. However, maybe the feelings that we have is real that is why we decided to get back again with each other. For me, I think that the most important ingredient that both of you must have is patience. Without this, I don't think so that the relationship will last. Do not worry much. If you two are really meant for each other, God will make a way for you to be together. On the other hand, if you are not meant for each other, then still be happy that your lover made you happy once.
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
yah your ryt thats why now i told to myself that i must accept what will happen at the end.. its hard but i need to accept it.. thanks for your comment annierose
@veganbliss (3895)
• Adelaide, Australia
9 May 11
Third time lucky then? My wife & I met online & we kept up a relationship of sorts for about six months before something happened with her work & she moved down here. We were married nearly a year after that. We just had our sixth wedding anniversary about a week ago. So, yes - online dating & relationships over a long distance do work out. It's all about the type of person you are & how much you are prepared to put into such a relationship. We were living just over 2000km apart at the time. Give it a go! What have you got to lose? The rewards are there in the end!
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
5 Dec 10
Yes, but not so long. So complicated to tell...we had been together for almost 6 years before he decided to move and work to other city. after several months, we broke up but we are still like what we used to do. We could talk on the phone for hours, it seems that we love each other, but now i am not so sure about my own feelings.
• Philippines
8 Dec 10
Hello mutya, Not yet but let me try.Hehehe.
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
yes but my man gave up. first cause we havent seen each other yet. it sounds weird though but i myself can say i truly love him. weird isnt it? but yes thats true. well am not giving up though..i know hes the man for me...
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
1 May 11
I love my husband loved, including platforms, airports and roads disallowed kilometers. Retrieval was always karmic preoccupied with the body first and then the words and guitar. It happens often we see only a few hours a night, half day, but he hid artist, beating moment nails and fix time. Goodbye never cried. Sparkle smoldering brown eyes desperate, which combines with oxygen in my lungs and I spirited him to convince the heart that my husband will always be there to pick me feverishly in return, to ... big arrival. Final. Me called forever. I came. Me brought all the plants. I cried the whole way alone, as nonsense without Utterance. Happiness there is in the form of a beautiful man who planted willow trees, and hibiscus, and cherry trees and tulips, and children ...
@Monkeyrose (2840)
• Canada
4 Dec 10
YEs but its really difficult and does not work. My brother also had one as well. They found it so difficult that she endedd up emigrating to Canada.
@bwaybaby (903)
• United States
4 Dec 10
It is really hard. My parents live near my boyfriend and his family, but I'm off at school right now. It's about a five hour trip. I'm lucky, in that when I go home I can be with him. My sister's boyfriend lives in a completely different state than where she goes to school and where our parents live, so she only sees him in person every few months. Being apart is hard, but it makes being together even better.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
4 Dec 10
No, I have never tried a long distance relationship. I don't think I would be very successful at having someone live so far away from me and maintain the trust and faith that i required in such love connections.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 10
Hi, I never have long distance relationship before and I don't think I can make it. it is so hard to be apart with someone that we loved so much. Although communication technology is so high-tech now,but we still can see each other in real.
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
4 Dec 10
I have and they were amazing relationships with a lot of emotion. Just because we can't be there for each other physically, well, we still love each other and it was all emotional. After all, the emotional part is the best part of the relationship; it complements the physical.
• India
4 Dec 10
Yes i just started having a long distance relationship right now and it's kinda nice for a while. I mean the distance shows how much we care for each other. Usually for most people such kind of relationships don't work out because they feel that their partner cheats them so it becomes hard for them to trust on them anymore. Moreover the most important weakness is that if a third person claims something of their bf/gf then it would start to strike some doubt in the heart of the people thinking whether they could believe in them or not. I have just started now and i am feeling very good about it. Hopefully it will last long! Cheers!
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
I've had a long distance relationship with my husband before we got married. It was very hard especially in the communication part. We had to go our way to call each other and there were times that we were't able to call the other because of our schedules. There was a point when I wanted to give up but he persisted and said it will work out. He ended up going out of his way to transfer school at the place where I study.:)
@aleic27 (161)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Having long relationships is easier now because there are many internet services including chat, emails, and web conferencing... I think it is just the matter of the mindset of the couple; if you do love each other you will find a way to meet personally and live together.
• United States
4 Dec 10
Yes, I tried it, but turned out that I could not have feelings for the person. I really need to see someone physically in order to tell how they are, whether I can have chemistry with them and so on. In virtual world, people sound different. So I have trouble figuring whether I can be with them. In the end, I broke up with him. He did not like the idea and threatened me that he would get me kidnapped. I got scared and decided to never go for such relationships ever again.