Cheating with the Partner
7 Dec 10
hhmm girls are not the only ones who cheat you know. but if u really want an answer to your question then i guess the reason why sometimes girls cheat on their partners is that maybe she doesnt feel happy anymore. girls always look for someone who can excite them, suprise them, always leave them wondering what the guy will do next. if she gets bored then she'll find someone who can give that to her.
6 Dec 10
It's a case to case basis and boys do cheat too. It's the husbands most of the time who cheats and not the wives. If wives do cheat it's because they are unhappy with their married life and they're not getting what they deserve from their husband. The other man usually appreciates the wife than the husband does. So if your girlfriend cheated on you, you should ask yourself why did she do that? Were you treating her right? Was she satisfied with the way things are going between the two of you? There's just too many factors. Let's wait for what other members would say about this.
7 Dec 10
I agree. I don't see myself cheating to my boyfriend or my husband when I was younger. I hated those people who cheated to their partners. But sad to say, I have been there on the same path as they were. I have cheated to my husband not because I wanted to flirt around with other guys other than my man but because the way he has treated for many years. I have lost the love and the passion for him that made me vulnerable to fall for other men. So to say, I am an unhappy wife...till now. We already have 4 kids and many times I have been wanting to leave him. But I don't want the reason to be a third party. I want to leave him because I want to be happy with my life too. And I feel if I stay with him, I feel I will be bound to fall again for another guy someday. And I don't like the idea of cheating anymore. As much as possible, I am staying away from plunging to sinfullnes again.
7 Dec 10
There are various reason why people cheat. One could be that there is lacking in the relationship or the other person in the relationship was not able to give what he or she needed from the relationship or the other person. One reason why men cheat more often than women is that men sometimes don't discuss what they feel to their partner and sometimes men get more curious than women. Sometimes the simplest remedy so that you and your partner won't cheat is to maintain communication and honesty. Sometimes when you keep saying your are fine but deep inside you are not, that would lead to all kinds of bigger emotional hurdle in the long run.