do you really believe that you have someone meant for you?^^

cute love^^ - boy and girl happy to be together^^
Portugal
December 6, 2010 3:27pm CST
hi guys do you really believe that you have someone meant for you? ^^ about me i believe in that but i really sometimes doubt that i will have the luck to find him or meet him. my life is a mess right now. im with problems in my head always nervous, crying easily and always stressed trying to find money to help my mum and at the same time save for travel. my head is a confusion and sometimes i really feel maybe i cant find happiness in love never. life isnt simple at all and so many problems and love is the worst bcs is hard for me to dont have a boy telling me he loves me everyday. thats all i need mostly and i guess that other things would come right. anyway what about you guys? do you really believe that we have someone meant for us? please share your opinions^^
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22 responses
6 Dec 10
I think that there is always someone out there for us. It just takes time to find them but it is better to find them than not find them at all. Surely we are destined to meet the right person at some point in our life. I really did love my first true love, hoipefully i could meet someone that makes me feel as good as she did. Life is never simple, it is a challenge, i can understand that you want to help your family out, especially financially, they are important to you, but you say you want o travel, to do that won't thatcost loads of money? what will your mum do for money then? or did you mean to travel to see your ex? i hope it is not that as you still haven't accepted the complete end to that relationship.
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
no craigy im working to help also my mum paying bills i want to give her some money for that even im not earning so much. anyway is christmas time so i guess i need also to save some money to buy christmas presents and im having problems in my head right now bcs im so nervous and im taking pills to be more calm and dont cry easy. sometimes i feel very depressed and too stressed. i just need calm right now so thats why i wish so much that i could work here in mylot bcs even i would work so much in posting and posting i would earn money to help my mum and my life would be better.
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6 Dec 10
You seem to be doing way too much and putting a lot of pressure on yourself, this is not good for your health. I know you need the money, just like many of us on here, especially with xmas so close but you need to take a bit of a break and recharge your batteries so to spek. Have a break from the computer otherwise you will make yourself really ill and won't be able to come on here for a long time, you don't want that. You need to think of your health, that is very important, slow down on what you do, you don't want to end up seriously ill, your no help to anybody then. Take a step back and relax.
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• Portugal
6 Dec 10
thanks so much for your worry craigy^^ is just that im so stressed bcs i feel like i cant help my mum paying bills even if i work so hard in finding ways to earn money. im trying to find ways and ways and is like a no way out. i just need like 20 dollars per day and thats it bcs dollars in euros isnt much. for example 10 dollars is only 7 euros what is nothing to help my mum. i need like 20 dollars that is more or less 14 dollars so that at least would be a good help already^^ even wasnt the best ever. i just would like to earn some money or maybe win lottery ahah
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@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Yes there is always one meant for each and everyone but who's luck? I ask this because sometimes it was for his luck or for my luck. I mean it one way around like the boy loves you so much and because he shows good all the good to hte family of a girl they automatically like him and this is the luck of a man who courted a woman. While the girl also convince by the family to give into him for she is lucky to have this guy as her husband i the future for sure in convenience. But i believe in this saying that we have our partner in life. It is good to find a man to love and he is do the same thing without doubt. But one day everything gonna be alright.
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• Portugal
8 Dec 10
yes i understand what you mean^^ that sometimes for example your family could love your bf but your family's bf didnt like you and that is always important that family loves us also. but dont worry im sure that if you find a boy that really loves you neither the fact that his family dont like you will put you apart bcs love is stronger than anything. so trust that you will find the right person dont worry.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
6 Dec 10
I honestly think that my man is meant for me. We have been together for a while. I used to think the same way you do, that I would never find him and that I would never be happy. Then out of no where pops this wonderful amazing man that I don't think I could live without.
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
im very happy that you already found the right guy for you^^ i wish that it can last for a long time^^ about me i think i found him but we are very far and we are both poor so is complicated to meet near without money ahah anyway i will try to save some money but right now is complicated bcs want to give some money to my mum to pay bills and also to buy christmas presents so is very complicated ahah
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@ansi09 (151)
• Tunisia
6 Dec 10
I believe in that too sweetloverforever, every single person has his second half waiting for him/her, i believe in destiny so much, & that everything will become true if, & only if, it's meant to be ^_^ Bytheway sweet, you are in a deep love coma, LOL, he's lucky the guy you know, hope he loves you back the way you do sweetloveforever ^_^ May i ask you, where does he live, in another country ?
• Portugal
6 Dec 10
thats cute that you believe in destiny too^^ as a guy thats rare bcs boys are not usually very believers of destiny and things like that ahah anyway im happy that you think like that and are waiting for your princess to come ahah about me i wanted to be near him as soon as possible but i guess isnt possible for now bcs i just work online and what im earning isnt enough to go and see him^^ he lives in phillipines^^
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• Mexico
8 Dec 10
Hi sweet love forever: I believe we all have one tru elove, somewhere in this world. I have sometimes in my life experienced the same problems and I have made me the sames questions you write here on this discussion. My conclution is that we shouldn't seek love, we should give love to the ones near us and live our lives and everything will be fixed. Don't feel sad if at this moment of your life it seems that you won't find love. Everything will go right :) Thanks for sharing with us your feelings. ALVARO
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• Portugal
8 Dec 10
thanks so much for your sweet words alvaro^^ i wont feel sad anymore^^ you are right we just need to live our lives normally and things will come to be right on their own without us worry with that^^ im sure that soon i find the right guy and that he will love me a lot and that me will also love him and that we will be happy^^ and i wish that the same happens for you too ^^ that you can also can find the right girl for you^^
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
7 Dec 10
i believe more in many people, some in different times of our lives, a few that could be our husbands/wives i think we are lovable beings, that means we can love a lot, one at a time of course LOLOL
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• Portugal
8 Dec 10
ahah you believe that we have a lot of soulmates and that we can love a lot of people but one at a time? thats cute^^ i guess you are a bit right bcs is rare the person that just love one person. i guess we can love many people but that only one is the true love i mean in this question^^ but i respect your answer and i think that is fun and a cool way to think about this^^
@mimiang (3777)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
We were destined to have someone with us
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• Portugal
8 Dec 10
yes i agree with you^^ we are destined to have someone with us thats true^^ im happy that you also believe in that. i guess that the most part of people believe that we all have someone for us^^ at least thats what i like to also think bcs that makes us dream and feel happy when we feel down bcs at least we know that someone out there will love us so much and we will also feel the same and be happy^^
@Xansus (950)
• Bulgaria
7 Dec 10
Ok enough of the cute avatars :P (no i just lie i just looooove animes :P ) Well if there is someone meant for me i will be more than happy , but i don't know if there is such person ;( I need a girl that will be all for me :P I'm not sharing (and i'm not kidding :P ) . Well future will show :P i'll wait for it ... one day maybe :P
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• Portugal
8 Dec 10
yes i know that you love animes ahah anime is so cute who wouldnt love it? only a stupid loser guy ahah like you ahah im joking^^ you are sweet^^ im sure that you can find the right girl for you bcs you really deserve a good girl bcs you are a good boy and sure keep waiting for it bcs it will appear for sure^^ just try to open well your eyes and you might see her^^ i really wish you find one that makes you so happy
@brew2x (3096)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
I do believe that there is someone meant for each of us. I'm glad I have found mine. I didn't search, just hope and he came into my life unexpectedly. Sometimes you don't need to look for him, just wait and he will come eventually. And when that time comes, you can say to yourself that it is really worth the wait.
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• Portugal
8 Dec 10
im very happy that you didnt need to look for your ideal guy bcs he appeared^^ thats great that you are happy now with him and i think you are right. i think that the person just appears and the more we search i guess is worse. we should just stay still and wait for that person to appear and show us that care for us^^ i really am happy for you that you found yours^^ wish it can last and im happy it was worth your wait^^
@fheroan (619)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
hello there sweetlove foreve...:D Hmmm, ya, sometimes the one that is meant for you is just there you don't realize it.. I'm in a relationship, and i never thought i'll be in one.. coz you know, i have a different kind of personality and i never thought someone will understand it.. but gladly i found my man... we are in a long-distance relationship.. people say it never worked out.. but you think, if it didn't worked out and you're not meant for each other, we're not gonna last long until now.. we're gonna be 2 years in relationship.. so we believe we're soul mates and meant for each other... All we have to wait is for us to meet in person..:D Have a nice day.. XD
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
thats cute that is two years already you are in a long distance relation. me too i was in one and we broke up but still are kinda waiting for meet near and be together^^ what about your situation? can you share with me? you live in a different country than him is that? about your personality is ok bcs everyone has different qualities and bad things and everyone has someone that loves both somewhere^^ and im happy you found yours. so now you and him just need to work and save money to meet soon^^
@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
7 Dec 10
In order to answer this question, you should first decide on whether "you are meant for someone"; if the answer is YES, and given that you remain open-minded enough for long enough, the answer to your question will most likely be YES as well! So, on a personal front, I'll comeback to answer you when I have decided on the primary issue.
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
i guess i see what you mean^^ that if you find that person then you can answer me^^ i really wish that you can find a good person that love you so much and that you can be so happy together^^ you deserve to be happy with someone that really love you. you deserve happiness. about me i believe that we have someone for us but sometimes isnt easy to find it. i guess that it needs time for that for some people ^^
• India
7 Dec 10
Well I surely believe this because I think that some where in this world someone special is made for each one of us and by some or the other way at some point of time we will meet him or her for whom we will see and find out that we cannot get better than this about me I feel I have found the right person and we love each other a lot........
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
yes thats cute that you believe in that and that you found your right girl^^ im sure that she also thinks you are the right guy bcs she was the one telling you first her feelings for you^^ im very happy for you. you guys have a sweet and original love story. im sure that it can last as long as you both continue loving each other so much^^ i really wish you can be very happy^^ you deserve that.
• India
7 Dec 10
i donno but i really dolike ur pic and i can even marry u to just c ur face every morning no offence
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
ahah thanks so much for your compliments^^ that make me feel shy im not that pretty that you would want to see my face all mornings ahah^^ im sure that soon you find the right girl for you and for sure will be prettier and sweeter than me^^ you deserve to be happy and thanks so much for make me smile with your sweet compliment
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@sender621 (14956)
• United States
7 Dec 10
I believe that everyone has someone that is meant for them. It may take us a while to find them, but if we persevere, we will find them. I will be worth the wait.
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
i guess you are right that everyone has someone for them^^ like destiny ^^ and sure i guess it will be worth the wait if is really the right person^^ i really wish that you find yours soon^^ i know that you have a bf right now but i dont know if is the right guy for you or not. i guess that you know that better. but i really wish that your bf is making you happy and that you feel he is the one for you^^ wish you the best really.
@shuley (369)
7 Dec 10
Yes, I believe that there is someone meant for each one of us, just like my husband now, I think we are really meant for each other. We had eight years on and off relationship before our marriage.
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
im very happy that you and your hubby are together since so long^^ so you say that before you marry you were together 8 years so thats really a lot of time with the same guy. im happy that he is the one for you and that you think you are the one for him also. thats very cute that you both love each other so much. i really wish that it last for even more years^^ you deserve to be happy^^ wish you the best really.
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
I just believe we make our own destiny and love is always a choice. We can choose to love or unlove a person. Sometimes we love someone but because that someone has hurt us so badly, we can come up with the decision to unlove him/her. It is simply because we can't seem to let that very person to continue hurting us. But somehow somewhere, there really is someone out there to love us and we'll love back. If you will keep your eyes wide open, you'll see that you meet different people everyday and there are many of them that you can consider a prospect or a possible partner in life. Once you find your other half, you'll know what to do and love just right. Love your self more than anyone else so he would love you the same way.
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
yes i understand what you mean^^ destiny brings people to us but its us that decide what to do? well about me i just know that i have a guy for me somewhere out there and that he will love me so much and me too i will love him so much^^ and that sooner or later i find him^^ but about if is destiny or not i want to believe that it is bcs is so romantic the idea that that boy was meant for me since the beginning^^
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
For me yes I believe in that manner that's why I have a husband now in my life who is meant for me and he also said in that.As for your problem you said it in prayers by Jehovah God after all he would do about what is your problem.
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
im happy that you and your hubby believe that you are meant for each other^^ thats very cute that you both think like that^^ about me praying to god i guess that i dont need to pray to appear a guy that loves me^^ i guess that it happens to everyone that is a good person and tries their best to make others happy and not worry just with their happiness. so i guess i deserve a good guy that loves me^^
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Yes i do believe that there's someone who's meant for every one of us. There's so many people in the world that there's bound to be somebody meant to be with us forever, like a soulmate. Cliche, but possibly true.
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
ahah yes it can be a cliche but who doesnt live with cliches? we all like cliches ^^ is also like cheesy we always say you are so cheesy or thats so cheezy but we all love cheezy things and we cant deny it ahah anyway sure we all have someone for us and im happy that you believe in that^^ so i really wish that soon you find the one for you bcs you are a funny and cool guy^^ im sure that at least bothered she would never be and also you have a sweet heart so you deserve a good girl to you also^^ wish you the best really
@jennbart (1332)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
I dont really know. Maybe. I will answer this question once I get to meet that person meant for me to answer you.
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
i see what you mean^^ so you didnt meet the boy yet thats why for now you cant say if you believe it or not. but you said when you meet you will tell me so it means that you believe in it a little bit at least what is great and super cute. i guess that we all need to have dreams and love to be happy. i really wish that you find your right guy so you can be very happy^^ wish you the best really.
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
hello cat, Yes i do believed that,right love comes in the right time with the right person. Losing someone is another way of welcoming the right one to come into our life. So,we should not regret for letting someone to go. We don't need to go around the world for the right love to come,because i believed that "LOVE ALWAYS FINDS A WAY" Have a great day cat
• Portugal
8 Dec 10
i agree with you^^ love happens in the right time with the right person^^ and i guess that sometimes the more the person search the worst and end finding wrong guys. like me im a believer of love a lot so whenever a guy was so sweet i also started to dream much and then got disappointed like with my ex. but what i have to do is wait to see if he will find a job and come here to meet me in person. then yes i will be sure that we are meant for each other.