Breakup's how do you move on???

@acey76 (1278)
Philippines
December 8, 2010 7:03pm CST
When all you see is that your partner will be your last , but eventually things resulted in the other way around and causes you a heartbreak how do you deal with this, and what are the ways you do moving on with your life??
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@malihat (216)
11 Dec 10
I think to be able to move on, you need to want to move on. I know this sounds fairly obvious but there are so many people who complain about not being able to move on even though the truth is, they don't really want to. They just want to mope around feeling sorry for themselves. The second thing is that you need closure. When my ex-boyfriend broke up with me I was unable to move on until I told him exactly what I thought of him and how he had wronged me. He felt guilty after that but I actually felt like this huge weight had been lifted off my chest and I didn't care about him at all any more and told him it was ok and I had forgiven him. So basically, you need to find some way of getting closure.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
9 Dec 10
It can be the most difficult thing we have to do when we are faced with the breakup of a relationship. Knowing how to move forward in a positive way is the best we can do for all involved in the relationship. It ia a struggle, but something we must try to do.
@hushi22 (4940)
9 Dec 10
i move on by the help of my family member and friends. i divert my attention and focus into my career and start changing my priorities in life. i focus on who are the people more important than the one who broke my heart. =)
• United States
9 Dec 10
acey there is no sure fire way to move on and get past a break up right away. I find it very positive that you are looking to move on. But in reality the only thing that will help is time, as time is a healer of all wounds. What also helps is another interest. Eventually you will find another love who will fill in the love you deserve. Try at all times to be very positive and keep busy. I wish you well and happiness in your life.
@cssiduyz (1054)
• Indonesia
9 Dec 10
sometimes it happens like that, but some are not. I also never experienced anything like that and get depressed enough to make my blood rise. and I think to solve the existing problems to be back as usual, and looking for a partner who can understand us as it is not no as.
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
hi acey, well, i also experienced that too, but you what i did to move on and totally forget my ex, i focus to my job, hang out with m friends, get together with m family and relatives, and go to the mall, after 1 month of doing this,i gradually moved on.
• United States
9 Dec 10
Hey the same thing happened to me about 3 months ago. I was in love but sometimes love isn't enough and things eventually fell apart... Its sometimes hard to get over things especially if its loosing someone you love. How i got over it is to just move on, its easy to say but hard to do. I just occupied the time i would spend with my girl with other things. Me personally i love music so i been making a lot more music than i have been, hanging with friends more, making money online... and just always realize that its not your last love cause thats what i thought before i got with my ex...
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
Hello acey76! If you are heartbroken, and you are planning to move on, then there is still hope for you. What I mean is, there are people who lost their loved ones and mope with it. But for those people who are open in moving one with their lives, then the best thing to do first is meet other people, you have to go out with your friends, have fun and when the pain slowly heals, then entertain some suitors or for that matter, search for another special someone to replace your lost love. Cheers!