Did you ever try to get very Irritated During your monthly Period?

United States
December 10, 2010 4:24am CST
Hi, I just want to know if some of you feel irritated if your monthly period is coming or in date? I don't mean it but I easily get angry or irritated with some issue a days before my period is coming. Bad thing, about it is I hate men..When I was single, I always fight with any men around me especially when they are teasing me, I don't like it...Now, that I am married, Its my husband I. I don't like the way it is. I love my husband, I dont want to hurt him. I get more angry if he will not listen or ignore me whining. After a few moments of bringing out my thought, I feel relieved....But, its not good...Do you ever experienced it? Its always once a month...the rest of the day are all normal....How can i get rid this kind of feeling or attitude? Thank you for the help...
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• South Korea
10 Dec 10
well before I dont think it affects my mood but now... gosh it is a big deal now.. so what I always tell to my man is.. "hunny you know I told you not to argue with me during my period and when my period is coming right?" lol coz he knows what kind of fight it will be.... and now everytime he will bring subjects that might lead to arguments I always tell him that "nah uh not now your making me feel bad.. can we talk about this when im in a good mood... (and he knows when is that..when I dont have cramps anymore!) I think you should talk to your husband how the girls feel when they have they period and say sorry in advance if your acting weird sometimes...
• United States
10 Dec 10
Hi Princess, Yes, he is aware of that...usually we started with a nice talk and ended up fighting.......
• South Korea
10 Dec 10
ahaha sometimes there are just things we cannot avoid..
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
I too experienced this every month during my period. I can't help to have mood swings when my period is coming or when ever i have my period. My bf always ask if i have my period coming because im being rude to him already. He sometimes understands and has a lot of patience with me. I sometimes tell him to watch out because my period is coming, and that he should be prepared for the mood swings to come..heheh. It's better that he's ready. But i know other people doesn't know that it's my period so sometimes i get easily irritated and don't give them the mood that i usually have.
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
Let's blame the hormones for that dear. I am sure that most ladies here would also feel the same thing when their monthly visitors come. I too feel discomfort at times but luckily I don't have painful PMS that others do experience. But what I cannot understand is that I really get irritated easily on days before my period comes. My husband will surely notice my tantrums at times and asks me if it was the day of the month .
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
From what I read about yourself during your monthly period,you do understand already what it is all about. Still you continue giving in to your irritation.Why? By this time you should know what it is all about and why you act the way you do. I,myself,was always irritable when my monthly period came around. I am now a widow and a senior citizen already. I recognized it when I had it...but I tell myself it's only my hormones acting up and it is my problem not others who might get hurt by my negative attitude to them.
@sanjay91422 (2728)
• India
10 Dec 10
I think there is nothing wrong with the teasing and all the fun. Teasing is a part of the relations ship. I think you should change your irritating mood because it can create troubles for you. I know men like to tease so they do. I don't know what you should do but try to make your relation much fun and refreshing. Try to share some of your favorite ideas and see how he listen to it. If you share things it will make the relation more enjoyable. Try to spend more time together. I wish you good luck and a very nice day/night ahead.:):)
@chowee (517)
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
I am not a women but i agree with you that women get irritated when their monthly period comes.I cam observe it in my classmates of course who are girls.When we boys try to mingle with them, they usually get mad to us. And i already know that this girl has a monthly period. And also in my friends who are girls, i also observe that they easily get mad to us which is not common to them. Some my friends told us boys with such bad words when they have period. Is this really a nature of girls when they have period??