Do you always reply in private messages here in mylot?

Philippines
December 13, 2010 4:18am CST
This question really bothers me, just like the friend request, should I answer it? What if it contains abusive words? What can I do about that?
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7 responses
@joystick (1680)
17 Dec 10
I get alot of people sending me links and that crazes me and i get other people that just say hi,etc which i do not mind as they seem to be great people.If people send you nasty things then what i would do is report them, that way they will stop sending them to you.I would not be happy if i had a nasty message on here.
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Actually it is ok for me when people message me just to view some links because I also do that, but when the links they have are some kind of nasty I'll sure report and delete them.
• Thailand
16 Dec 10
Well, I always reply for my private message here because all this message is necessary for me and for my friend. I am never receive a abusive words in my message. If you receive abusive message, You can delete them or ask the sender: why do he/she do that? By the way, all most private message are come from our friend, so that it rarely has abusive word in there, right?
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Acutally, some may add you just to spam or abuse you with some words, we never know. You can delete them as a friend if they abuse you but I dont think people here will do that.
@vicozzio (45)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 10
Well, I'm new here.. Never got any Private Message, but through my experience on other social community websites, I always reply to any Private Message that is not spam or abusive.. About abusive PM, I will think that there're a lot of people use different type of approach to start communication.. I'll try to be nice first.. If it won't stop and become annoying.. report to the admin is the best thing...
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Yes, you should do that. And besides, mylot doesnt allow spamming users so you can report them right away if they have done something wrong or annoying.
@youless (84705)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Dec 10
I always accept friend's request. As to the messages, most of the time I will reply to them. But when I see some boring messages or the messages like asking you to be their referrals, then I may just leave it alone. I just want to trust my friends, so I won't be a stranger's referral easily because there are so many scams. I love China
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
You really have a point there. Now I get so familiar with the rules and guidelines here. Well, it is easy to follow, just be friendly enough so that people will understand you and trust you. This forum is made so that people could exchange their thoughts and ideas, it is not just for spaming others inbox just to get some referal.
@lovedude (4457)
• India
13 Dec 10
I do reply private messages only if it's valid message.. rest of the message I either delete or if it's abusive.. I report that profile to mylot..
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
Me too, but so far with my experience in my lot I haven't received any and I thank God because of that.
@mopingz (82)
• Indonesia
13 Dec 10
just apply and reply em. Makin friends is really good. I'm feeling happy when there is a friend request on my dashboard. Dont underestimate someone before you interact with em. C'mon, try it on. No one knows if you ever been trying yet. :D
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
Yes I really believe in that and because of that I think I have made a few friends in here and Im getting used to it. People here are friendly especially when it comes to the personal problems they share here, I can really relate to that. Plus they give you advices that can really help, unlike in other social networking sites, people are snob.
@tonyllenium (6267)
• Italy
4 Jan 11
there is not obbligation in this sense so you can reply or not depending if you want it or not...it is really simple in many cases you can if you judge it cna be necessary for that member but not really necessary if this can bother you..