Male and a chocolate

@advokatku (4037)
Indonesia
December 13, 2010 9:00pm CST
Some male assume crying is an act that should be shunned because if a male cry, he would look weak. Therefore not uncommon in the end he was trying hard even though her heart is broken. However, when no longer strongly, sometime a male also crying (although do it in hidden place), actually for a male, cry is a tool to make become relaxed. So when you see your boy or boyfriend or even your husband was crying, please do not laugh. Let he cry and give to him a bar of chocolate. Believe it or not, when crying while eating a chocolate bar, a male will become like a baby
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4 responses
@arunmails (3013)
• India
14 Dec 10
Oh, I think you will cry a lot. Crying is one of the way to express our feelings to get relaxed. Why men should not cry? Even he's a human being right. He is not a supernatural, so nothing wrong in crying.
@advokatku (4037)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 10
as a male, sometimes I also could cry. And just like your opinion, a male crying is not a strange thing. This just a matter of culture and stereotypes of one who is taught from generation to generation in our society.
• Indonesia
14 Dec 10
A male friend cried in front of me when we were in high school, after breaking up from his girlfriend. I didn't say anything, I didn't look down on him. I just patted his shoulder to let him know I was there. I agree that the society unfairly sees crying as a weak gesture that the male species should not do, but I think there should be a limit to how much crying a guy can do. If it's not excessive, then it's okay. But that's just me.
@advokatku (4037)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 10
yes, you're right ... everyone can and entitled to cry
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
22 Dec 10
Hi Advokatku!. I never think if chocolate has effect like thats on men. I think we all had right to cry where ever they want. Its will be easier if woman cry because they can do it in shoulders of their friend and its not the case with man because when they cry they usually do it alone in the comfort of their room or somewhere else they will not seen by others. Its rare sight to see man cry in public place. Its only happen in my family in only few times my brothers cry when he lost one of his front teeth in football match, he come with mouth full off blood and tears ready to spread out and when he enter the door he can not hold it again and cry.
@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Dec 10
hi advokatku I have always said men should let go of their hurts an weeo jusuas we women do as if a relief for stress.So if I saw my son or my husband crying I would offer help but it they were embarrassed I would leave them alone.I have always cried alone and it unstressed me. chocolate does wonders for both sexes. So it has to have a really calming agent in it as it works for both sexes.