Going Holiday Alone?

@nicregi (1936)
Malaysia
December 14, 2010 12:05pm CST
Okay, if you see my profile, I have a relationship problem. This made me think if I am single again (which will be very soon), I am going for a holiday at Caribbeans or Maldives...alone! Anyone thought of this before? I was thinking it could be a very good experience and a peaceful holiday. However, it could be very boring as you are alone. What's your take on this?
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11 responses
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
hi, i can come with you, if you dont want to be alone,LOL,joke only, just want you to be happy, being alone or single is not a big deal, why dont you go to your family. or with your friends.
@nicregi (1936)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 10
Hey! You would come with me? Of course you are invited! :) Yeah I was thinking of my family but they are everyday busy. Well, maybe will go a long distance holiday myself and short distance with them :p
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
haha, really i am invited? wow, i really appreciate that, if i could easily go with your place,LOL. smile my friend.
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
14 Dec 10
I never done this, and I would rather call a good friend of mine to go with me. I am sorry to hear that you have a relationship problem, and hope that you will get over it very soon. Me too, I just ended a relationship with someone over 4 years. I wish that I can go with you to Caribbean. I heard that it is a nice place with a lot of beautiful girls touring around that place. So, you might find someone else there. Good Luck!
@nicregi (1936)
• Malaysia
14 Dec 10
Haha..man yeah actually gong with a guy friend will be fine too but I believe my friends will be kinda busy. Pretty girls? Good! Can mend heart :p
@maximax8 (28558)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 10
In my younger days I often traveled alone and really enjoyed this. I found that I met other travelers and made new friends. I have traveled alone in tropical destinations including French Polynesia, the Cook Islands, Samoa, the Maldives and Caye Caulker in Belize. I did find the Maldives beautiful, expensive and a bit boring at times on the resort island with not much to do. I went to St Lucia in the Caribbean with my mom and that is a fantastic destination. Going to the Seychelles with my ex-boyfriend was lovely and it is also a pricey destination. I am sorry to hear about your relationship problem and know traveling is a way you could feel happier.
@nicregi (1936)
• Malaysia
14 Dec 10
Hey! Thanks for the info. Yeah I know travelling is going to be expensive but I have never done that. Seems to be something fun to do! Anyway, don't be sorry for my relationship. If that is meant to happen, it will happen either way :) Happy mylotting!
@whateva (786)
• India
14 Dec 10
no it should be fun, go have your time cous it could be a great chance to absorb yourself and figure out so many things in life that you cant even think of when in a relationship. wish i could make this sound mroe clear but i have to go off now ^^
@nicregi (1936)
• Malaysia
14 Dec 10
Nooo! Haha Okay thanks for your reply :) See you around!
@Sanitary (3969)
• Singapore
20 Dec 10
Carribeans and maldives are both beautiful places to visit or for holidays. I don't mind going tuch places alone because it's simply beautiful and i get to chill out too. Travelling alone is not boring at all because u are free to go anywhere u want, no arguments and having to please their other person. It would be good to find someone of similiar interest, but when it comes to travel, it's best to be alone.
@cssiduyz (1054)
• Indonesia
15 Dec 10
no, because I do not really like holidays. I would prefer to do something useful for others and also yourself. because it was very impressive for me.
@camposkat (310)
15 Dec 10
Hi nicregi! I think if you feel like unwinding for a few weeks then it would be a very good idea. If given the finances and opportunity, it's not that bad to give yourself a break and unwind by yourself. If you feel like you're uncomfortable and might sulk if you're alone, then take a good friend or a sibling along with you. Have fun and enjoy your holiday. If you've been tied to someone for a while in a not so good relationship, then it's time to give yourself a nice treat. Good luck and I wish you well. Have fun on your holiday if you do get to go.
@velvet53 (17488)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Dec 10
Well it would be nice if the two of you could patch things up. But if you can't I am sure you will find someone to chum with while you are there.
• Indonesia
15 Dec 10
I have experienced travelling alone and although it's not a really nice experience you can always try to go on a tour and you will meet some people to talk to and even another solo travelers. You should enjoy this holiday even more by being single and free to do everything you want :)
15 Dec 10
It wont be boring at all, go on a few trips that the hotel organises and then you will meet loads of people staying in your hotel and will have people to talk to for the rest of your stay. Caribbean is good, lots of things to do there. As long as you have a friendly personality you will have lots of fun there.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 10
we seem to suffer the same fate had its own holiday