Talking back to your parents, is it really bad?

Philippines
December 16, 2010 4:08am CST
Some teenagers now a day talk back to their parents most of the time. I dont do that unless I know Im correct, but as an adult, do you think its bad? Why, just because they are our parents?
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Dec 10
glamgirldoll you can have a difference of an opinion with your parents if you are respectful and not saying mean belittling words. they are your parents and yes they do deserve your respect even if you are right and disagree with them.Remember they are not old fogeys and should be respected. You get much further with sweetness than bitterness.
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
I know but still when I express my opinions my parents will just take it for gramted and sometimes will lead to a misunderstanding thats why I do that. There is no other reasons why I talk back except for that.
16 Dec 10
hi glamgirldoll, well for me, talking back to parents is not bad as long as you talk in a nice way because talking back to parents in a bad way is a sign of disrespectful. We should give respect to our parents because they are the one who raise us and they give us their unconditional love.
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Yes, I know but sometimes they are just unfair and they dont understand what we means thats why children talk back. I dont see a reason why children will talk back if the parents understand him.
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
17 Dec 10
What exactly do you mean by "talking back"? There is expressing your views and there is sassing? I am a 42 year old mother and daughter. I do not back talk (sass) my parents. My children were taught that they have a right to their opinions and to express them.They were however, expected to express themselves without disrespect to me (or anyone else for that matter). We are all human and as such, we have different views on things. Respect should be given to one's parents. Respect should be given to all people.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
16 Dec 10
Talking back to your parents is disrespectful. it is not something that should be accepted or pushed aside. If talking back to your parents is allowed once, it ill continue. it may turn the relationship between parent and child into something that they both could regret.
@doggydimon (1369)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
Nothing is bad when you talk back to your parents. It is just like expressing your opinion or feelings. What is bad is how you say it. Remember they are still your parents and they must be respected. In almost all cases, the parent and child are in a heated conversation when the child answers back. So when the child answers back, his voice is up and his temper is shortened. So in the eyes of the parents, this really looks bad. The best thing to do here is both parties should cool down first before the child speaks. In that way, tensions will ease and both parties can understand each other. Children need to talk back to the parents. How will the parents know what is it that their child is thinking if he/she doesn't speak up. If the communication between them is open, then their relationship will grow stronger...
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Yes, thats what always happen in here but some childrenand parents do not value the meaning of communication.