white lies

Philippines
December 16, 2010 5:23am CST
They say that,if you really value that particular person who won't let to hurt them.And for not hurting them is not to hide anything right?But what if, we did not intended to keep something that we know might hurt and don't understand them at the moment.Do you think white lies is helpful?Even though we know in the end they will get hurt.Have you tried to make white lies, and how do you able to carry it.
2 responses
16 Dec 10
I think that sometimes white lies can be helpful, sometimes the truth does hurt and if a white lie can stop the hurt and it wont be found out then I think it can be used. The problem would be if the white lie gets found out, as whatever the lie covered will hurt a person, plus that person may be hurt that the lie was used. Usually I hate lies but I do think that sometimes if there is a good intention behind the lie then I think it is ok.
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
yeah not all white lies are bad sometimes it's for good reason.But the time came for revealed it will really hurt in the end.But, there always a purpose and it's depend upon in a situation.Maybe, we find it hard to understand and asked why they should have to lie but, in the end we have also to come up realize the reason behind on it.And we must understand instead to misinterpret and to judge.We are not perfect,but we can able to correct in our mistake in due time.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
I just made one big white lie to my mom so that she won't get hurt. White lies help...but its still a lie. If the person finds out about it then they would get hurt more.
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
We could hurt them more in our white lies.Yes, white-lies is still a lie even if it will reverse it.But, sometimes we should lie to keep and to hide of something.Not all truth will help to tell because it's a matter of time and acceptance.We can't avoid doing this.They say the truth will set you free,but not all the time.We know ,it will get hurt them more but there's such things shouldn't meet the time and by chance.And that's we have to keep or hide it,because I believed that everything has it's right time.And learn to accept and understand.And sometimes, it's hard to explain.