It's hard to create unique topics these days..

Philippines
December 16, 2010 9:54pm CST
Hello lotters, Well, I am not sure or maybe it's just me, But i've been here almost all the time and i can see something different. that is, similar discussions are usually rampant most specially to new ones that comes in this community.even in mylot topics some are seemed "answered before" The only different discussions that i have been seeing here are personally experience of the users. unfortunately, the so called "unique ones" are seemed hard to find. unless some one makes a unique rant or get attention of others with risk of breaking the rules, guess those are almost over. This Writer's block syndrome is really a pain to all of us writers. well, i am the amateur one though.wish i could use my FULL brain capacity and not only % of it. Have a Great Day
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14 responses
• United States
17 Dec 10
I do know what you mean as mine also seems to cramp and freeze.. But then an inspiration comes through from time to time which allows me to carry discussion for a while. Have a great day.
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
Hello hardworkinggurl, Same goes for me, but i wish that inspiration comes all the way through. it's hard to make topics when you're empty headed nor uninspired or lazy
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
17 Dec 10
You know what you need Letran? Puppies...A dog will give you all kinds of things to write about. Cats will too if you prefer them. The best posts I make and read are about my puppies or a mylotters pets. After I do everything from replying to my posts and my friends, I go to my interest and most of the time, I end up replying to some stranger about their dog or cat post.. Of course this can be me, I love animals and love their antics, and having a couple of wild beasts of my own, I see stories in their lives every day. I just don't have the time to write each and every one down, but they do keep my mind active and creative..:)
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
Hello Carmel, I do have pets my friend. I may have to make a discussion out of it, but of course, i should consider looking into other options too. I have made discussions about my pets before and probably had been answered in some occasions. i got a problem with my dog though but i guess i can solve it.
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• United States
18 Dec 10
You know, I think I remember you talking about your dog. So tell me about him/her. What kind, how big, how old? What is unique about your dog? AS often as I reply to your posts, if you still making ones about your dog, nine times out of ten, I will respond; I love animals and especially dogs..
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Dec 10
As you observe I am also running out of topics to post lately. Maybe because I am tired most of the time when I come to my room from work. Of course alot of things coming to my mind everytime I open my laptop. Aside from work I am always thinking my family specially this time a very important period for us as Filipinos. We don't Christmas celebration here so I am thinking most of the time when I was in the Philippines with my family. I am trying now to find a day that my Boss will give me a days off from work.
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
Hello Julyteen, You're tough to think you can post even though you're tired. when am tired of house choirs i go to sleep before i can make topics again. well, i just don't remember it's been almost ten christmas since my dad actually working in the states. he's working in a different field i guess.we miss him.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Dec 10
What's your favorite color?
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
BLUE OF COURSE
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
18 Dec 10
It is very difficult, to create a unique discussion. But sometimes the ideas come just like that, sometimes the ideas that emerged from the problems being experienced.
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
Hello indahfth, Indeed it is though sometimes most lotters have the guts to do it.even if it's simple enough.not just some problems but things that they also enjoy in their lives, i do believe things will go well for them when they make a discussion not just from problems.
@cyclopz (251)
• Sydney, Australia
18 Dec 10
Well, its really quite hard thinking about unique topics especially when you try to think about it on the spot when you are mylotting. But sometimes we could really think about lots of good topic when we are not trying to think about one. I get lots of ideas especially when I'm about to sleep at nigh but i usually forget about it the following day when i try to think about it again. That is why i usually take note about it so that i wont forget it when i go mylotting again. I think unique topics get more responses as compared to those usual topics that we usually see being posted here and i think members also prefer posting on topics which they usually haven't tried replying to before.
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
Hello Cyclopz, There are some topics that also gets huge responses when simplier poll onces are put in, but it depends on the impact.. i have seen good topics but unfortuantely, i couldn't relate to some of them. well, do try responding on them a lot more this time.
@silentwill (1685)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Of course, most common topics have been discussed by someone else already here, so it's really hard to come up with something unique and unusual. I myself haven't created even two topics per week in average. I guess they here is to come up with fresh ideas or different ways of conveying topics that have already been discussed making them sound new. Of course talent will come into play on that and I just don't have that much.
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
Hello SilentWill, Yeah, that's true. although some had made some unique discussions, the trouble is that people don't respond much on them. as for talent, probably the way they discussion was made in the first place.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 10
Hi Letran, my first responder to one of my discussion has alerted me that my discussion might be deleted as similar discussions are already in circulation in mylot. Well, things like this is unavoidable as we sometimes run out of ideas and we might just give the newbies something to respond by posting topics which are similar but not the same. Sometimes I keep low by not posting anything as I cannot come up with anything that has not already been aired here. Just hoping that admin give their stamp of approval and not to delete them.
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Hello Zandi, Oh, alright. I think i made a discussion and some one warned my topic that it might get deleted. well, it is indeed unavoidable and some times i had to make different discussion after searching for some similarities.. we can always search.
• Singapore
17 Dec 10
Yeah.. I've been seeing a lot of very similar discussions, if not same, floating around the community. I'm also having trouble starting unique topics, so .. I prefer to respond to other's discussions. happy mylotting :)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Hello Redwarrior, Similar topics most specially for newbies i think. well, it's better than nothing i guess, some are just experience of the other lotters day by day. well, you're the second person that responds to topics, maybe i should do to.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
21 Dec 10
There are periods of not so interesting posts here but I am so bury catching up on my notifications that I haven’t really noticed! I suppose it is bound to happen…I know for a fact that even the best writers are sometimes void of ideas! When I find myself staring at a blank canvas I generally take a break, go and do something else and stop focusing and the ideas start come back pretty soon. It is the same when MyLot seems boring, I take myself away for a while...
• United States
17 Dec 10
Letran- Get out of the house for a bit! Life will give you loads to write about, but yes if you stay inside cooped up with only the pc for company it can be a lonely place. I'm sure that inspiration will hit you soon and it won't be on what the latest antagonist is doing on the latest day time drama show. For me, I spent part of today shoveling again as we got more snow dumped on us today! This after a weekend blizzard dumped over twenty inches on us. My pan pipe arrived today so I spent some time this evening learning to play it. I say for a first time user I'm doing fairly well as I managed to recognize the songs I was playing. I do sometimes miss the deep discussions that were on here when I first started Mylot. I also miss the cute updates I used to see from day to day of a few regulars that used to update about life in general. What I have learned though about online communities is they are like the sea. All things move and yet the come back in some form or another. We just have to be willing to ride out the waves. Namaste-Anora
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
Hello Anora, On the contrary, I have gotten out the day after you told me to do so. but of course, i got other things in mind to share than just the usual experience in my life. Deep discussions is fine but i want to make it as simple as possible and not to make it so much fuzz with the other topics.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Dec 10
Hi LetranKnight, I understand what you mean and found this happening with me too and gosh! I am so young here as compared to many great stalwarts... and yet I face this issue... But then one day I realized, I can pend down anything... really anything as far as I find it interesting and worth sharing with friends... So what if those posts / discussions do not make them popular and I get much lesser responses... I enjoy the sharing thing now. Cheers, theSids.
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
Hello Thesids, There are topics too that i want to share but this time i decline because it might be too deep for others to understand it.. I only hope people would realize that topics discussing should be worth responding as well and not just always for the sake of earnings.but like you i do love sharing, specially when it comes from my mind.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 10
The last time I created my own discussion was few months ago. I'm only responding to other people's discussion nowadays but still the risk of losing my comment is still there when I responded to a discussion that had already been created few days before that. Maybe I prefer to participate to other's discussion more because I don't always have much idea for starting a new discussion. Thanks for sharing and have a nice day
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
Hello Koduko, That's what i hate sometimes, most specially when the discussions that i responded or comment to have it deleted.. making an idea isn't as easy before since I have been here for almost three years already?
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
@ LK Since i started posting at mylot lot of discussions are running on my mind but the problem is when i started typing it here it seems to vanish :(, I am not a writer really so i don't think i have this kind of syndrome Writers Block hhehhe!..... have a nice day!