would you sign a pre nuptial agreement??

Philippines
December 21, 2010 8:30am CST
i supposed all of us are aware of couples engaging to pre nuptial agreement before they get married. for me i find it practical cause i dont want any marriage to end up in divorce but what if you can no longer save the marriage, how about that property that work hard alone and you are oblige to share it with your spouse. im not saying that you will deprive your assets with your spouse but hey!? its my property and i work hard for it right? i firmly believe that if you marry a person you are union as one and i agree to share everything with you spouse but i completely disagree to share it if you have already decided to separate. for me it wont definitely matter on me if my husband to be in the future tells me he want a pre nuptial agreement. i personally ask him as well if he haven't yet asked me about it. for me there's should be no issue on having a pre nuptial agreement cause its just an assurance for you, its like having an educational or life insurance to insure your future and your kids. for me a person should marry because he/she loves his/her spouse not because he/she will benefit on its wealth. i personally believe that if disagree on a pre nuptial agreement it only means you dont genuinely love your fiance instaed you have a hidden interest on his/her wealth. for me i i will marry someone i will assure first im settled that i have my own money,job and all and of course my husband to be as well that he is settled before i will decide to get married. you, what's your opinion about this matter?
3 responses
• United States
21 Dec 10
I would sign one in a heart beat. I would not let property or cash keep me from the man I love. Plus by the time I finish banking my own money it would not matter. If I have to give it all to my daughter it would be fine with me.
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@buggles64 (2715)
• United States
21 Dec 10
I think by signing a prenuptial, you are already deciding that the marriage will end sometime in the future. I understand that you want to protect what you have, so why get married in the first place if you have to have a prenup? And you could save the cost of the lawyer fees later on. It just wouldn't be something that I would do, and for the given reasons I posted above.
• Philippines
21 Dec 10
well i also consider that but for me just an assurance cause you can never can tell what will happen in the future. i personally respect the sacredness of marriage and i dont agree on divorce but just what if.. i guess it is better to be sure than regret something on the future right. and i i will get marry i will make sure we won separate, in God's grace and provision=))
@CatGods (4596)
• United States
21 Dec 10
I am in total favor of a pre-nuptial agreement. I have told my son many times that he should sign pre-nup if he should find some one that he wants to marry. I believe that pre-nups protect both parities. Personally I wouldn't be without one.
• Philippines
21 Dec 10
im glad that you are in favor of it.. for me it doesnt mocked the sacredness of marriage cause others think that way. we're both right that it is just a protection for both parties..