Is it that GOOD to be with someone who fakes stuff on your face ???

@sunnycool (12737)
India
December 21, 2010 11:13am CST
There are two kinds --- Who reveal stuff on your face and those who fake about things on your face LOOKING INTO YOUR EYES. Would you wish to be someone who talk sweetly with bad thoughts deep inside OR prefer to go for someone who reveals almost everything good and (even bad thoughts) frankly? People get sooo attracted towards folks who fake stuff --- right! Are you one of those?
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@zed_k4 (17627)
• Singapore
24 Dec 10
Hi Sunny bro , good topic here. I know what you mean .. for me , I'd prefer if someone gives me the cold look , but bears no grudges than someone just sweet talking but bears lots of grudges inside. However , there are also sweet people with sweet hearts and they mean sweet things too. Just that , on the outer surface , it's sometimes real hard to see. Until you start asking mingling with them , and see loopholes from them and wondering where did those come from. I think only time will tell if someone is faking it or not. But there are also those who make the extra effort to change to become better persons , and they should be given chances.
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@zed_k4 (17627)
• Singapore
27 Dec 10
Very nicely said , life .. Two people need to hold the trust tangible thread .. it cannot be released ..
@akp100 (13328)
• India
21 Dec 10
Hi Sunny. I really can't answer this one.. As i have seen very weird situations. Personally I thinks fake ones are really not good. But i am having one friend who tells everything on face to everyone.. But sometimes this is not good. Some short temper friends really don't like his attitude and it always end in big fight. And thats what making me confuse.
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• United States
21 Dec 10
I guess that depends upon what you mean by "fakes things". I am pretty much a WYSIWYG type gal, and I would rather "in your face honesty" rather than people talking around issues and never really saying what they think. I do know that makes some people uncomfortable, though, and not everyone can be that honest. There is a difference between trying to be appropriate while still being honest and just plain being fake, however. Also, there is a difference between playing around and being fake, in my opinion, so the context definitely matters.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
24 Dec 10
I know that nobody in this entire world is damn perfect so are their thoughts.Each of us have our very own way to exhibit our likes,dislikes.When folks tend to praise about things which they dislike then it is considered to be faking.
@bjcyrix (6910)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
Just tell me like it is and we wont have any problems. I do admit that I have negative thoughts. That's why I try to not say much because I also dont want to lie. I find that keeping quiet is better than saying the opposite of what you're really thinking. So for me I hate fake people. I actually avoid them. Id rather have someone tell me all the negative things in the world about me (that are true), rather than tell me all the positive things, just to find out later from another person that the first person was lying point blankly. That would make me lose trust in the person, and trust is something that I highly value. Once I lose trust in a person, I lose it forever, no matter how much redeeming actions the person would try. Anyway, its a new year and new hope that fake people would turn real. Happy New Year!^_^
@drannhh (15211)
• United States
28 Dec 10
I don't have anything to do with fake people. My friends speak frankly and so do I. I am pretty good about seeing right through phony people.
@Sanitary (3969)
• Singapore
28 Dec 10
Majority of people loves compliments. However we should not take it too seriously or take it too deep. Just keep it on the surface, feel good for the moment and forget it soon. I'm someone who likes frank people, especially those whom talk without thinking, blurting out anything that goes through their mind. I feel really secure with people like that because they can never hide anything from me and they are true to me.
• Pamplona, Spain
23 Dec 10
Hiya sunny, No obviously not. I don´t what it is that attracts them to those kind of People. I would prefer to be with someone who says everything straight in your Face and not behind it. When I feel bad about something too I usually state my feelings right out. However there are times when I hold back a bit and wait till the time is right. I don´t like false People very much. I don´t hate them I read their mind most of the time and just take them as I find them. But to have to live with someone like that can ruin your life almost completely if you let them. I have not been attracted to one of those kind of false boyfriends in ages. I did discover one he was my last but one boyfriend before getting Married and I am so glad I found him out. He was pretty sneaky but I was a bit more smarter that time and said ta ta to him.
@Sreekala (22720)
• India
22 Dec 10
Hello Sunny, There is a saying ‘the truth is always bitter’. I prefer to hide the rude remarks to avoid the hurting rather than to be honest. It is not necessary to tell everything you feel in mind. It also may depend on the relationship with whom I am interacting. If the person is very close then I can even say the rude remarks in a funny way. Very recently I learnt that it is better to ‘cold my tongue’ regardless of the depth in relationship. For me, I hate to hear the fake praises. If the honest opinion may hurt but there is a chance to learn the mistake and improve/change accordingly.
@arunmails (3013)
• India
22 Dec 10
People must have to believe in themselves. They must learn basic good and bad. Then there is no necessary for them to follow what others say. They must know to differentiate what is good and bad, cunning and innocent.
@lingli_78 (12846)
• Australia
22 Dec 10
i always prefer honesty and i dislike hypocrites... that is, people who are two-faces or who fake stuffs... i prefer people to show their true color on their faces so that they are not misleading other people... that's me... it is hard for me to hide my true emotion on my face and people always say that i am very easy to read... i know that this can be good or bad sometimes... but i still prefer it this way... take care and have a nice day...
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
22 Dec 10
not really good, but it helps me sometime with that kind of friends. that means i am good. no matter how bad i am. but believe me kitty, even i am your folks who fake the stuff, but i am not attracted with you
@Lore2009 (7389)
• United States
21 Dec 10
I wish I can be frank about everything, but sometimes, I'm afraid to face the truth so, I am guilty of faking... thinking to be polite... but I don't know if it really is or not.
@buggles64 (2715)
• United States
21 Dec 10
I have seen sincere eyes and "fake" eyes that hold fake sentiment coming from the same pair of eyes. Sometimes, when telling the truth, it is often hard to look into someones eyes, because the fear of rejection. When I speak of my feelings, I am being honest. When I speak of my needs, I am being honest. When I am speaking of love, I am being honest...there is nothing fake about it.
@savypat (20247)
• United States
21 Dec 10
I always favor those people who have an honest approach toward life.
• Philippines
21 Dec 10
You mean hypocrite people??? pleasing you if they are in front of you, but stabs you at your back? well never would that kind of personality be appealing to most. But if you are talking about people who are artistic that uses the miracle art of photo shop to make the face more appealing, well I don't have a problem with that. One should know a person well before you can say that he or she is just a fake. After all, we should not judge a person that easily. It is up to you to decide if you can get along well with all types of people. It will be difficult, but you don't need to have favoritism just because they are your friends, and some are not.
• United States
21 Dec 10
Nope, not only am I good looking in person, I look good online.. and in my heart so sorry I cannot be one of the ones mentioned as I live with me daily and this girl has to be good looking inside and out at all times. HA!
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
21 Dec 10
I hate hypocrites! They have honey coated tongues that speak like a shooting star but inside them are evil. Their true colors are never revealed as their superficial sweetness masks something rotten. Such people can never be true friends as they are not trustworthy. Fakers might be able to fool me once but never a second time.
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
21 Dec 10
Hello Sunny, i'm not sure that i understood your discussion in it's right way. I hope it's about fake emotions, feelings, stories, situations, retelling and if the question is that way i'll say no, i don't like that kind of people and i never contact with them too much. I prefer people with natural emotions, ready to tell me everything the way it is, ready to show respect, the way they feel it, ready to even fight with me, if it's needed, because they feel it. Fake stuff are not stuff i like. So i usually stay away of them.