what was the most hurtful word you said to someone?

@chiyosan (29389)
Philippines
December 25, 2010 5:06am CST
well we all say things, we all have our opinions, and even to our loved ones we also say things that we might not mean at the time... right? so thinking about it now.... can you, will you share with us what might have been those that you said to your loved ones, or friends, or to someone you are not very close with that has really hurt them?
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12 responses
@DoctorDidi (7030)
• India
18 Jan 11
I cannot remember any such incidence in my life where I have uttered any hurtful word to anyone.
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Thank you for taking time to respond here in the discussion, its wonderful to discuss the topic with you, have a wonderful time and happy mylotting! God Bless... :D
• India
26 Dec 10
My lover gets hurted badly when I call her a pain. I would not even said such words but if said I would not even have meant it. I seriously love my partner and cannot think of saying all such words. No point in hurting my partner in any way not even in my dreams.
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Its a pleasure to have you on the discussion, apologies for this late response though. See you around mylot and have a great day! Godbless you!
@whateva (786)
• India
26 Dec 10
i told my brother during a fight, that i would get him arrested or i could sue him or something. :p parents made a real big deal out of it :p man!!!!!!!! humans are maniacs :p
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Thank you for taking time to respond here in the discussion, its wonderful to discuss the topic with you, have a wonderful time and happy mylotting! God Bless... :D
@Urfun2 (51)
• United States
26 Dec 10
I think the best thing to do moving forward to is not focus on what was said to cut through someone but truly how to mend with healing words
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Appreciate having you here with me in the discussion. Thank you so much for your time, God bless and see you around and happy mylotting!
@tvarasu10 (101)
• India
26 Dec 10
I felt sorry and sought pardon from the loved ones whom I hurt with words knownigly and unknowingly
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
I hope you are doing really well, Im glad to have received your response. Best regards to you and have a wonderful day! See you and Happy mylotting!
@greet123 (44)
25 Dec 10
Every word spoken out of hatred hurts. So I try my best not to use unkind words and hurt anybody but when someone does hurt me by using rude words, I do hit back, no matter how much I try not to, it comes more out of anger than anything else.People need to be careful not to hurt others since the wound made to mind/heart takes more time to heal than the wound made to the body.
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Its great to see you in the discussion, its been a while since i came back to the discussion myself and sorry for this. Hope to see you around the site, happy mylotting.
• India
25 Dec 10
I perfectly don’t remember any specific word I have said till now. But I know sometime we can say such things which can hurt the Opposite person a lot. Whenever I get into an Arguement with a person I don’t think much and say whatever comes in my mind and by this way I have hurted a lot of people and a lot of my Friedns too. It is a true saying that the Tongue is the softest Organ of the Human Body but If not used properly it has the capacity to hurt a Lot.
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Its a pleasure to have you on the discussion, apologies for this late response though. See you around mylot and have a great day! Godbless you!
@buggles64 (2715)
• United States
25 Dec 10
I have two..."you have to much baggage!" and in the meanest, evil eyes..and a finger pointing, said "go home!" That hurt, I am sure of it.
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Dec 10
it sure would hurt the person on the receiving end.. i remember saying that i do not see myself with my bf when we are old... he took it really bad and it hurt him more than i thought it would.
@zaga_cleuth (1414)
• Philippines
25 Dec 10
The most hurtful word I've said to somebody was "I hate you". I know it's easy to say that to anybody without meaning it. But, when it comes to serious drama, it is a very hard words. This could break a relationship, family, friendship. A lot. And those words need a lot of thinking before saying really meaning it.
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Appreciate having you here with me in the discussion. Thank you so much for your time, God bless and see you around and happy mylotting!
@cssiduyz (1054)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 10
Our view is the view of love. And my words as well. Courtly love, and do not ask for more. If you're happy I was happy. If you can get better, I also feel it's better for us. It is me and you in a different world. Then at a crossroads moment we met though. In the limited time that we grow and develop together, much to learn from each mistake, and help each other in another shortfall. Sometimes you get angry, sometimes I'm that disappointed. There are times when patience runs out, and there are times when I felt very tired.
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Its great to see you in the discussion, its been a while since i came back to the discussion myself and sorry for this. Hope to see you around the site, happy mylotting.
• Philippines
25 Dec 10
Well I could not remember what would be the hurtful words that I had to someone because I would be the recipient of those words that can determine how hurtful the words I had said to them.
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Appreciate having you here with me in the discussion. Thank you so much for your time, God bless and see you around and happy mylotting!
@gunagohan (3415)
• India
25 Dec 10
I have done like this many times in the past but i am taking many steps now considering not to say a word which would hurt anybody whether they are close to me or not. I too have experienced such hurt words from my close friends and i have later realized why would they use such words on me...It's due to my fault..
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Dec 10
that's right.. we all have made such mistakes that we know we have hurt someone.. and only to realise it is rather much worst and harder to take it back than not to say them in the first place... thank you for sharing! Godbless you this Christmas!!