My sister's SAD love story

sister - old pictures
December 28, 2010 7:42am CST
We (my sister and me) found out that His long lost love, crush lately been in a relationship that I know She ever wished for. What I feel is that I know that it really hurts. I saw her singing like she wants to hide what she feels and can't cry because we're on her side. And now she's on her work now. I was crying for what happen. She's already 25 years old and still waiting for the right guy who will love her no matter what. I feel sad about that guy. I know him since they are in College. And my sister waited for so long and last year they see each other in Facebook and last week they hang-out with their friends. Im praying to God that She will get rid of this feelings. And one day God will answer her prayers. Can you give me some advice on what she gonna do? What is the best I can give to her? Thanks a lot. God bless! Happy New Year!!
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8 responses
@Metatronik (5899)
• Pasay, Philippines
28 Dec 10
Honestly she does not have to be sad and conscious even if she is already 25 years old and single. You must really help her to move on and hang out with friends especially outside the house. As much as possible don't ever live her alone especially when she is inside her room because it will really remind her everything or she will be more depressed. I would honestly tell you that it will take you so long to move on and rid the hard feelings especially when it is about lovelife. Let her forget the guy and don't ever open up a topic about the guy unless she will have the initiative to talk about it. If in case that she will open up all over again just let her do it and don't make her stop not to talk about it because that can be the other ways that she is trying to move on. But don't pressure and just tell her to move on because that is not gonna easy for her to make it. And again as I said you have to do something else.
• China
29 Dec 10
very good but what does the hang out mean? i am a chinese.
29 Dec 10
What I am doing right now is trying to be with her at home all the time. Seeing her while she is sleeping. The time that we know that this guy already been in a relationship I was crying too. But she never saw me because she is in the office at work. I was here to listen to all her thoughts and opinion about what's happening to her. I let her talk and release all the thing she wanted to say. And I've notice that she is so irritated this days. We allow her to hang-out with friend but this guys also her friend in College. So may be better to hang out with the other group of people. Thanks for a very nice suggestion. God bless! Happy New Year!!
29 Dec 10
Xiaoxiao123- Hang out means: having a date with friends go out with people making a good day have fun God bless! Good day! Happy New Year!!
@fl0rencia (417)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
Your sister is still very young, she could still meet a lot of guys that could love her that way she wanted to be love. But of course, as of the moment, her heart is broken because of what happened. The funny advice would be, don't give up! Hahaha. They're just boyfriends and not yet married, so there's still a chance. But still don't get into their way or you might get hurt again. The serious advice is for you to take your sister somewhere that could make her forget what happened even just for a while. Keep her busy, so she can as well move on with it. She can't depend herself to something that is not certain. :)
29 Dec 10
Yes, I think she needs more exposure and time to meet new guys. Your so cool! The only girl who advices me this thing. Giving up is for the weak person. I think she is very strong and can fight for it. We never know what gonna happen in the future. May be soon they will be together as lovers. She is so beautiful to be wasted. Had a good job and intelligent. Its not yet her time to be in a relationship. Better to wait for the right guy on the right time. Good day! God bless! Happy New Year!!
@NESHRIE (82)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Dec 10
The best thing to do is try to think of the who she has around her, all the people that love her is important and her feelings well, she can't forget, but she can live to be with those who love her, that there will always be someone else, someone for everyone, talking is good and do what makes her happy not what will remind her of him
29 Dec 10
Love is like living in this world. You can't please everybody, get all the things you want to have, and enjoy each time that past. You still have to feel the pain (problems)to make us stronger and a better person. Life must go on, with/ without him. They are friends for many years. And my sister fall inlove to him for more than 5 years. But this guy didn't recognize felt the same feeling. May be it because they are not destined with each other. She has to find another guy. And ask God to be answered. I think she's still find and on the right age to manage all this things. Good day! God bless! Happy New Year!!
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
For me it is her choice but in relationship it is needed to be made strong.
29 Dec 10
Yes being weak and being strong is part of a good relationship. And sometimes you have to feel how to be hurt just to realize how much you love each other and on the other hand a challenge while you are in a relationship. I being in a relationship you will show the stronger and weakness part of you. I never believe in a constant relationship. There must have a ups and down. After that you will realize that after all of this thing that happens on your relationship you still love each other with support and you will turn to much stronger. Good day! God bless! Happy New Year!!
@yuki1987 (59)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
your presence and your shoulder to cry on..oh..my..life is beautiful and enjoy life while still young my dear..tell her don't make a move as guy will come at the right time..don't rush time my dear as having a boyfriend is not that you can still enjoy everything..tell her to enjoy her work, salary and enjoy life while still single..
29 Dec 10
Yes, not only having a boyfriend will make her happy but also with her friend and us our family. I think that she's enjoying her single life but the thing is that she never felt to be inlove and been in a relationship. What she wants is to feel the love and to be loved by someone more than friends. I can say that to be loved by someone at your side is really worth. Priceless! But if that's God will so she must accept it. She still need to wait her heart to beat again with the other guys. Good day! God bless! Happy New Year!!
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
28 Dec 10
well there's the good thing of her having hope, life is easier for people that believe. i think most of girls pursuit the guy that is going to love us no matter what :)
29 Dec 10
Yes each one of us are destined to be happy. We just have to wait for the right time and the right man that will come along in our life. May be she's still young. 25 years of waiting is not just enough. MAy be she have to wait for another year and we never know. I tell her to ask another man to God to be answered. And I hope that even she's single he still feel the happiness that her friends made. And I will let her expose herself to meet other guys. One day my sister will meet a man of his dreams. Good day! God bless! Happy New Year!!
@Kamz83 (4)
• Philippines
28 Dec 10
Hi. Tell your sister to enjoy life. It's not worth ruining your day for the fact that the one you long for to be with you is with someone else. The right guy will come along God willingly. Before he does, let her live life happy enjoying and cherishing each moment with you, her friends and family. God does work in mysterious ways. What we may think is right for us might not really be and what we hope to be ours might only be something to regret sooner. It's not bad to feel blue for the moment. But don't let her feel that way for a long time. Cheer her up and be supportive always...Happy New Year
29 Dec 10
Yes it feels so bad when you feel upset and this guy is enjoying his life with his girl. It feels like end of the World but its not. If this guy really don't like my sister well I don't like him too. If my sister dries I will also cry with her. I feel the pain and I experience this thing of my past. Yes I let her do everything she wants. And then I want her to be happy with her life too. If they are not destined with each other it means there's a man much better who is waiting. What she needs to do is to wait this man along with her life. God bless! Good day! Happy New Year!!
• India
28 Dec 10
Many sisters in this world face this problem. Just tell your sister that love is not a life. Love is just a part of life. She will get an nice and kind husband in her life. Ask her to forget about the sad x boy friend. I wish her all success in her life.And your sister is really nice to have wonderful brother like.You and your family is the best support for her now. So make her happy try to find some better partner than the old guy.
29 Dec 10
Yes as I promised to God I will help her. We are only two siblings and I will never leave her alone. And if that's what happen it means that this guy is not really meant for her. They are not destined to be in love with each other. There's still a better person for her who will never leave her alone, will love her more than his life, will take good care of my sister and of course will make her happy and love her with all his heart. By the way, the guy is not her ex-boyfriend. My sister love this man for a long time. Good day! God bless! Happy New Year!!