Bad Grammar

@bestboy19 (5478)
United States
December 29, 2010 7:27pm CST
Can someone explain why Americans say, "For I?" A sentence example could be, "I bought this car for my wife and I." The word "For" is a preposition which takes the objective pronoun. "I" is the nominative pronoun. Is grammar no longer taught in school?
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@Angelwriter (1954)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I think some people use the word "I" when it's not right, because they have the idea that "I" is usually more grammatically correct than "me". I don't know of anyone who uses the phrase "For I" but I know people use "I" in other cases when it's wrong. There's an idea that it sounds more educated.
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@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
30 Dec 10
Angelwriter, you may be right about people thinking "I" sounds more educated than "me", but it isn't. Prepositions take the objective pronoun. "I" is the nominative pronoun. I think people have heard "I" used incorrectly so often, they don't know it's not correct. If grammar is taught in schools, why isn't this error being addressed?
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
30 Dec 10
so what is the difference between these two sentences 1. I just go 2. I am going Which is the correct sentence? both frames the similar meaning or same in this case
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
30 Dec 10
Gunagohan, in your sentence examples, what is the writer trying to tell the reader? My discussion involves prepositions and pronouns and the misuse of the pronoun "I".
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@fgb_fritz (278)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
yes, i think learning the correct grammar is like brain twister. there are so many rules to know before you say something you will check if you got those words right. in conversation, it is not matter as long as you understand with his/her conversation but when it comes in writing, proper grammar is a must! would you check if i have bad grammar.. xD
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
and by the way, you should not set the Americans as example, they are english speaking nature.. you should say "some people" instead.. this is insulting
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
30 Dec 10
Correction is insulting? It's no wonder Americans are so far behind in education if they are insulted every time they are corrected.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Dec 10
bestboy now why on earth are you saying that? I have never seen or heard anyone of my american acquaintance use that term . usually an American and I am one too would say I bought this for my wife and myself.And why Americans, is it again bashing Americans day. I suppose you are from England or the british isles? wrong. grammar is taught in our schools and who are you the grammar police of mylot or a school teacher or English professor?
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I asked this question because I'm constantly hearing Americans, in all walks of life, using the nominative pronoun after a preposition. I am amazed you have never heard anyone doing it. Perhaps my sentence example isn't a good one. Here's another example, "Please read the letter to Jane and I?" In this sentence, "To" is the preposition. Leaving the name "Jane" out of the sentence, would you say, "Please read the letter to I?" Anyone would say, "Please read the letter to me." So why do so many use the nominative pronoun when there is another person involved? You have supposed incorrectly. I am not the grammar police of Mylot nor a school teacher. I am an American who has often found that those who protest the loudest to correction are usually guilty of the crime. Anyone who doesn't want to sound stupid would be grateful for the correction.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
10 Jan 11
I don't believe I've really heard people say that, but I don't think it's that big of a deal. You still know what they are saying, right?
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
30 Dec 10
I haven't seen anybody using such grammatical error...I bought this car for my wife and myself would be a good formation. I have heard someone saying, i bought this car for me and my wife and i think this is also not the good way of forming a sentence..
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
30 Dec 10
You are correct. "I bought this car for me and my wife," is incorrect. The other person should come before you. The sentence example I used isn't a good one. Here's another example. "Will you do the work for Bob and I?" If you left Bob out of the sentence, would you say, "Will you do the work for I?" Any preposition takes the objective pronoun, so why do so many people use the nominative pronoun "I" when another person is added to the sentence? Even though you haven't seen anyone using such grammatical error, have you heard it? I don't see it either, but I hear it all the time. That's why I wonder if grammar is taught in schools.
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@marguicha (215177)
• Chile
30 Dec 10
I think some people donĀ“t know grammar, but you should not generalise. English is not my native language so I make many mistakes but my hated error is when people say (or write): "I should of..." instead of "I should have...". I have seen it it mylot used badly by all English speaking people. I have a grammar trouble with "at" or "in". But, aster all, I do quite well in Spanish
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I know there are many other grammatical errors besides the one I am discussing, but to me, this error is the fingernails down a chalk board.