Woman kidnaps her self to test how much her husband loves her

Calgary, Alberta
December 30, 2010 10:25am CST
A woman wonders, how much does her husband loves her, how far he will go just to prove that he loves her. Well she decided to kidnap her self, she sent an image of her self being tied and gagged she sent it to her husband and ask for 20,000 Euros as a ransom so she will stay alive. Guess what the husband did nothing he doesn't damn if his wife is "kidnapped". The police sued her for extortion... what will happen to her marriage only god knows. What do you think is the best way to know your mate really loves you? How far will you go to prove your love to your mate? Do you know any strategies better than this woman? source: http://tinyurl.com/2fnhjdm
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@celticeagle (119388)
• Boise, Idaho
31 Dec 10
I think this woman is demented. If she had to go to these lengths to see if her husband loved her then they must not have that great of a relationship. First, a relationship of any value has good communication at its cornerstone. If you don't know who you are married to and have to go out and pretend to get kidnapped to find out you are alittle demented and your marriage is not going to get much more mileage on it.
• India
1 Jan 11
Wild imagination, suspicion, sick neighbors or relatives might have triggered this kind of an act in her. At least she has found a way to test, I mean, that vulnerable has woman become in today's society where a loving husband can insure a wife for personal profits, what about the woman,delivering in an airport toilet and strangling the baby with the umblical cord?
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@celticeagle (119388)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Jan 11
It definitely takes all kinds. But communication is still important in a relationship of any kind.
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
I kinda remember in "men are from mars, women are from Venus book" Men and women have differences and to keep a relationship stronger they have to communicate well to keep the relationship strong. Also enjoying each other's similarity also helps in preserving marriage and keeping it tight and strong. I think she did it expecting a result she wanted ,sadly its not what she wanted.
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31 Dec 10
I think that the police were right to sue her. i do not know what will happen to there marriage, only the two of them can really decide this. I am single and so at the moment this is not a problem i am faced with. We can't be with our partners 24 hours a day 7 days a week, we all need our breathing space, we just have to hold onto the fact that we believe our partner loves us, otherwise there is no trust and therefor no point in the relationshp really. One thing baffles me about this discussion though, i can see that she wanted to see if her husband truely did love her and what lengths he would go to to get her back but you never say how the police got involved. How do we know that the husband was not so worried that he contacted the police and left it to the professionals to deal with. That is something you don't explain in here.
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
I guess fear is also involved, why would he risk his life to give out money to criminals who kidnapped his wife. I guess he thinks its more practical to let the police do it.
2 Jan 11
He would be scared, scared that his wife could die, or if he tried anything they both could die. This is what the police are here for. But still you never say how the police got involved. If the man did call the police then this shows that he does love his wife as he alerted the proper authorities and left it to those who knew what they were doing. That is the best thing he could have done really.
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• Calgary, Alberta
4 Jan 11
another scenario, maybe he doesnt have money so he called the cops which is really the most practical way of solving a kidnapping case.
• United States
2 Jan 11
wow! what a nutter!! Who would do that??? well besides her? for real she has some serious issues, I would say her hubby has the issues but he was not the one kidnapping himself! I hope she has some time to really think about her actions and how she held up police officers following her prank when I am sure there where real emergencies
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
The police kinda hater what she did so they charged her with extortion and she is currently in Jail since what she did is some sort of a scam.
@pupupd (1521)
• India
2 Jan 11
She did not commit a murder, robbery or kidnap. She just wanted to test her husband's love. Police should not be so harsh to her. The lady has already had her heart broken when she realized her husband does not love her at all. Why harass her more? Such treatment can make her mental. I suggest it would be best to charge her some amount and leave her.
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
Yeah that could be better, No one is really harmed but the police cant get over of her scam. I think she needed some support emotionally and Psychologically.
31 Dec 10
all i can say is she was stupid. i would have just asked him.
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
How would you have asked your spouse about how much he/she(you didnt specify your gender so) lvoes you.
2 Jan 11
just come out out and ask. if you dont ask you dont get any answers
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• Calgary, Alberta
4 Jan 11
He asking a question is really easy but she didnt even considered it.
@uath13 (8207)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I'd have told them "Give me 20k & I'll come take her back. Take the offer now, later I'll demand more". I hope she enjoys her cell after they lock her up.
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• Calgary, Alberta
30 Dec 10
A test of love ending in a cell, I guess the result would have been positive if her husband saved her but he doesnt gave a damn if she gets killed by the "kidnapper"
@uath13 (8207)
• United States
30 Dec 10
He did what he should have done by going to the police. What was he supposed to do? Take out a bunch of loans, pay a supposid kidnapper to hopefully let his wife go. There's no gaurantee they wouldn't kill her anyways just to make sure she didn't identify them. What she did was rediculeiously STUPID!
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• Calgary, Alberta
30 Dec 10
You may be right about it, maybe he really do love her but he dont want kidnappers to control the situation on saving his wife.
@mspitot (3833)
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
That is so risky. The saddest part is the she learned the truth.
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• Calgary, Alberta
28 Jun 11
I wonder where can I hire an assasin....
@freymind (1352)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
it's sad as well because it could be that the husband cannot give the attention his wife wanted but this is not a very good thing to do since there's really a consequence and police will really get you. what if the husband really did everything to get the money even stealing? i don't like to think that it would also be a reason for him to be in danger.
• Calgary, Alberta
6 Jan 11
She didn't know that this is really a lose lose situation, she just stole this gimmick from some movie and she didn't know movies and reality are 2 different things,On the bright side though, now she knows the answer to her question.
@singup (666)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 11
hi CaptAlbertWhisker i think it was stupid idea from her to test her husband.if i am in husband place i will devorce her because she is careless woman. stress of life is more than enogh and having kidnap story make it worse. her marriage for sure not going to be better if she does not be devorce because her husband will not trust her anymore even someone really kidnap her and she also not trust him because he does not do anything in last kidnaping. the best way as i think that she make him more relax not more stress.for example she can cook his favorite food or praper the room for romantic night or at least let him watch tv without interrupt !! if woman want to find a way there are so much atticals and videos in internet she can learn from them. to prove love is to stand beside your mate when she/he need someone. for sure any stratagies without fair and stress will work perfectly
• Calgary, Alberta
4 Jan 11
Some people are really needy of attention that they wanted their partner to give attention of them all time. I think she is one of those. She is very obsessed with her husband that she wanted to know how much he loves her and how far he can get to prove his love. It just didn't work out since her idea is crazy, i think she imitated it from a movie but she didn't realize that movie is different from real life. Now her marriage is most likely to be ruined and she will spend time in jail because she pissed off the cops.
@silverglint (2001)
• Philippines
3 Jan 11
Really, I don't think I would go that far. I mean I may wonder how much my husband loves me but I will not go to the extent of kidnapping myself and all that. I think the saddest part in the story is that the husband didn't really care about her safety at all
• Calgary, Alberta
4 Jan 11
I know for sure its really going to be hard for her because the truth hurts. But who knows her husband really loves her, he just let the cops do their job because he wanted to stop the "bad guys" who happens not to exist.
@pupupd (1521)
• India
2 Jan 11
The way the woman behaved is far too extreme. She could just have disappeared and waited for her husbands worried calls or something like that.It would have been far more easier. She could have made him jealous by faking a call to a guy and having gossips with him. There are many nice and decent ways to find out how much your mate loves you. Another way would be to pretend to fall sick suddenly and tell him that doctor says complete rest and someone will be needed 2 hours to take, look at how he/she reacts You can easily find out his/her love for you. Not necessary,always a woman tests her husband's love, a man equally wants to know how much his girl loves him. So don't think I am supporting men Rather than getting yourself kidnapped and involve police into the matter, these tricks would work better. However,I will never try these things as I believe love can happen only once and for all. I will always try my best to keep my love alive between me and my partner. Neither will I wander away nor will I let him
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• Calgary, Alberta
4 Jan 11
I think your idea is much more effective and practical for sure if her husband got worried of her because she is missing it could have worked. if her husband acted jealous and worried then that is the answer. since usually in kidnapping cases, people will rather call the cops that give a ransom money.
• United States
1 Jan 11
Here's one:go to the park, museum or library all day and DON'T take your cellphone with you or let anyone know where you have gone until 8 o'clock that night. By just suddenly showing up at home no worst for the wiser...lol This might land U in the dog house with your mate later on after all the relief/joy that your safe & sound.
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
Yeah that could be a better test, its kinda similar but not crazy, I think its a much better way on testing trust and love between partners and spouses. she crossed the line so she gets a very disappointing result,.
@sid556 (31005)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Hi Albert, I am guessing that if the police got involved that the husband did in fact do something even if only hand it over to the police. The woman sounds as if she needs help and is extremely insecure. If the woman is going to these crazy extremes to prove to herself that her husband loves her, can you imagine how she acts and what she is like to be around on a daily basis? Sounds pretty messed up.
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
I can imagine how crazy she might be, I think her husband might have enough of her that he didnt give a damn if she is "kidnapped" I have a feeling she could bee a paranoid nagger for her to act that way.
• India
31 Dec 10
this is not a good idea to prove how a man loves his women. A women will come to know automatically how much a man loves him. By kidnapping herself, the man will become more angry about his women. Happy New Year.
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
What do you think is the best way for a woman to know how much her husband loves her?
@RONDOLAWE (776)
• Indonesia
31 Dec 10
really need to know how much his love but what if she was married and wanted to know more in that way, many roads but not in that way, for example: make a few mistakes that eliminates the husband's suspicion that she was your test by the way was with the same guy every day, that's enough do not need to kidnap yourself or try to get in a fairly traded jewelry surely deplete savings in bought to surprise his wife, either way she was and a little crazy
• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
I wonder what will happen to this marriage, the cops sent her to jail and I dont know what will her husband do. I dont know if this relationship will continue after all the crazy shenanigans that occurred. I think this gimmick is used by a movie before but the ending is happy, I guess the woman watched the movie and tried doing it in real life. Sadly she gets the opposite of happy ending.
@lingli_78 (12844)
• Australia
31 Dec 10
that is really stupid... i never think of testing my hubby's love to me in that way... there are other ways that i can think of to test my hubby's love... now she has to reap the rewards for her stupidity... she might go to jail because of her reckless action... hopefully she learn her lesson from here... take care and have a nice day...
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
I think she is already in jail, The cops got annoyed by the nuisance and annoyance she caused them so they arrested her. I dont know what her husband did after she got arrested but for sure its a very embarrassing situation. she is a trainwreck and a total nutcase for sure.
• Italy
31 Dec 10
I think she deserves more than the cell. She looks like mentally sick for doing this kind of things. Love cant be judged through this kind of actions. Love only build on trust and understandings, if she dont have trust over his love she could walk on another way but now what she have done will hurt both of them for the rest of their life.
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
It seemed like she is too paranoid with what is going on with her marriage and her desperation led her to this very cheap and uneffective trick that ends up as an epic failure beyond the depths of hell.
@lady1993 (19749)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
I can't really blame the woman for doing that, upon reading the husband's reaction. It's not really extortion yet since the husband didn't even care to do anything... The husband should also be put to jail for abandonment/neglecting your wife.
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
a double whammy, makes me wonder why did the husband did nothing and neglect her in the hands of her "kidnappers"
@ANIME123 (2473)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Well that right there wasn't a very good idea to do I know that I would never do something like that because I know that it would just lead to problems a lie is never good especially one like this it's nothing to kid about. I think what she should have done to test his love is well actually I really don't know how someone would do this. Still I do know one thing it's not a good idea to fake kidnapping because that is very serious.
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• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
Indeed its a terrible joke since kidnapping is a serious matter, there are so many ways to know if a husband really loves his wife but she tried it the hard way.
@stanley777 (7177)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
That's quite insane.. But really, the husband did nothing? Then he must not really love her. he could have at least called the cops or tried to look for her. he just simple ignored her....
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• Calgary, Alberta
4 Jan 11
I think he called the cops thats why her gimmick failed miserably since she never think a scenario like this would happen.
@toniganzon (53324)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
She's crazy for doing that, but then she was able to prove that her husband didn't consider her worthy enough to pay 20,000 euros. I am confident with my husband's love and i don't want to test it in whatever way. When you love another person there are several ways to show it by the way you take care of each other. I don't have to prove to my husband how much i love him since the fact that i married him and gave him a son is proof enough.
• Calgary, Alberta
2 Jan 11
she is way to high maintenance and she wanted to get all of her husband's attention, she is kinda needy so I guess that pushed her to cross the line and do such thing.