First Impression isn't the best Impression !!!

@sunnycool (12737)
India
December 31, 2010 12:38am CST
It is quiet funny that people think they can read me correctly...infact they never did!I wonder if they can ever! This has been the case with 90% of my close friends. We tend to discuss about our very first interactions when we do not have anything better to talk about! One phrase which best describes me is "I'm not what i look like" ... rather i'm quiet opposite! Being tall,calm,mascular with a "I dont give a damn attitude" --- majority of folks conclude that i'm Arrogant ---- as they would get one straight answer for their questions.Nothing more or less.I get straight to the point...i see that people do have a problem with these kinda attitude! Dumb --- i strongly believe in being silent.They get shocked only when i talk stuff! Student who sucks @ studies --- lol this is somehow related to my body.haha I have been said by my juniors(who are girls) that guys with good body can never be studious which is a bit odd in my view!Me getting into brawls is an affirmative for them! Reluctant to interact with strangers --- only those whom i believe gets to interact with me.As of others i can be a hard nut to crack! Above all i'm sooo cool --- they would get to know "as how cool i'm" only when they try to mess with me People who see me directly fail to extract as what i'm exactly at a go ... dont you think its quiet silly of me to expect one sulking babes with limited brains to understand me! FIRST IMPRESSION ISN'T THE BEST IMPRESSION AND IT CAN NEVER BE! THIS WAS ME ALL THESE YEARS AND I GOT NO PLANS TO CHANGE ... NOT EVEN A BIT OF ME! YOU CAN HATE ME ... DISLIKE ME ... THIS IS WHAT I'M ... I WOULD BE THE SAME IN THE COMING YEARS TOO! *DEVIL* How about your experiences? Do you find it funny and weird when people conclude about you conversely ? Quiet a long post huuuh ---- HAPPY NEW YEAR TO MYLOT....MUWAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!
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15 responses
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
31 Dec 10
i guess you have personality problem kitty. then you mean that you can be cool calm and clever, then in different time you can be rude, s4ck, and annoying? or is it me who fail to rad who you really are
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
31 Dec 10
Every human being is a mixture of 'all' you have mentioned above you scored 20 out of 100 lol ... now you decide if you passed or failed
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
31 Dec 10
only 20%? but you said that every human being is a mixture of all. i should get 100 score then
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
31 Dec 10
Ain't we talking about "how good you were in reading me"
@aparajita (860)
• India
31 Dec 10
I quite like your being elaborate in your being vocal about your self analysis. That requires courage. The topic itself is interesting enough. What I didn't and couldn't understand is why are u calling yourself a devil? Doesn't that show an extra bit of negative self exaggeration. All the good points fall flat at that point. Give it a thought.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
1 Jan 11
Meant to use Devil emoticon in there in a funny way! I have got enough courage which can shock folks! New Year Wishes!
• India
1 Jan 11
lol!Wish u the same..:)
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
Nice profile name
@akp100 (13328)
• India
31 Dec 10
Well I guess this statement is surely not true for all people. Personally I don't able to interact well with people when i met them first time. So They never can imagine what I am capable of.. .. But after two or three meeting I can explorer my self properly.. some thinks that I am shy in nature . May be and I am trying to change only this part of my nature. About you are just as your username...
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
Instead of changing this particular habit try to spend more time with the ones you feel free with eventually you would get over with the shy nature coz i have been in your shoes for years...i really doubt if i'm still in lol I'm shy in some ways ... the way i carry it off projects me to be one arrogant hunk. How was your NY ?
@akp100 (13328)
• India
2 Jan 11
well.. I am improving with my nature too.. It was great.. How about you ?? Anything special ?
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
Yup it was special ... didn't booze this year
@dawnald (84148)
• Shingle Springs, California
31 Dec 10
Ah well I'm quiet, so people never know how to read me...
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
31 Dec 10
Oh yeah ... i can see that you hardly open your mouth *considering your avatar* Fear of mosquitoes huuuh ? Happy New Year :)
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@dawnald (84148)
• Shingle Springs, California
31 Dec 10
No, it's fear of being charged for using extra syllables. Happy New Year to you too!
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
1 Jan 11
I thought you feared of extra decibels
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• United States
31 Dec 10
Personally honey I do not care what you look like. I simply like you for who you perceive me to be. In other words how I read you based on your posts is a caring and helping person. I will never forget the first discussion I responded to you where as you were I believe you were exercising and someone stole your sandals. Now how is that for a great memory. See I do not spend time trying to figure people out, I take time to contribute to wonderful caring people. Happy New Year my friend. May the Lord bless you with many healthy and Prosperous years to come.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
Wooow you still remember that discussion...amazing Nope ... i lost my sandals in temple not whilst exercising. Thank you for the greetings
• United States
2 Jan 11
Yes indeed I remember, maybe not the full content but I remember the sandals that someone has been enjoying.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
they must have been worn out until now
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
31 Dec 10
Hello Sunny. Well i am normal. And to be honest first impressions in my case never count. But who care about that anyway? Either people like you for who and what you are or they can just leave. Sulking babies i do not have time for. Neither those who think they really know you. Enjoy a new year TATA.
• United States
31 Dec 10
No one truly knows anyone these days. Hi saphy I wanted to stop by and wish you a wonderful Happy New Year. May you be blessed with many more healthier days. I so look forward to many more happier days and interactions with you in the upcoming new year. Your friend hardworkinggurl December 2010
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
1 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. One can only try to know people. Thank you. Have a great 2011.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
It irks me when someone dislikes me for something i'm not into despite of them being aware as how i speak! Just a damn link to show that its disgusting is a sin !
1 Jan 11
for me, people shouldnt judge until they get to know someone. thats what i always do. when i first meet someone i do think things but never say out loud. once ive got to know someone, if i feel the same then i will say something otherwise i keep quiet
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
If you guys doesn't go well then there would be no point where you say that "i thought you were like this and that when i met you for the first time".
2 Jan 11
im not sure but you would have to say something, especially if they did something to upset you
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
...i prefer to be calm as of now!
@Sanitary (3969)
• Singapore
1 Jan 11
Most people likes to judge upon what they see. It's common and i've learnt to accept it because once they had such fake impression of us, it's not easy to convince them otherwise. SO rather than wasting my time explaining it to them, i will let things be. It's good if some people can see the real me, if not, it's too bad for them.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
Eventually there would be one day when the ones who misunderstood you would confess about their stupidity that day wouldn't be so far! You concluded it really well ... so here comes the BR .have a great day
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@Sanitary (3969)
• Singapore
5 Jan 11
Not that many people would confess their stupidity. IF they do, they would definitely earn my respect. Thanks for that!
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
8 Jan 11
I see that they never admit it!
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@jaspey (24)
• Philippines
2 Jan 11
they said first impression lasts but its up to you to prove them wrong and eat their hard words :) for me being real and true on the first place will make a great difference and it will show to aother people who the real you is :)
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
Welcome to Mylot Jaspey, there is one stupid freak who finds it hard to accept real and true stuff...i dont know if first impressions last forever atleast one shouldn't be perceived otherwise!
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
2 Jan 11
Well, I am a quite person and don't talk when nobody talk to me or even the conversation is not as interesting as I think...they told me sometimes that I am swelled-up but in reality I'm not... Happy new year too!!!
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
Exactly...its really bad that one who is silent is being tagged to be prouder or showing some sort of attitude which isn't true infact.
@ladym33 (11008)
• United States
1 Jan 11
Happy New Year to you as well. When I was younger I often found people judged me as well because of how I looked. They automatically assumed that I was stuck up. Even my own husband when he first saw me he assumed he would have no chance with me. Until a mutual friend introduced us and we talked and he realized I was actually a nice person. I had a lot of people think that way of me, and my friend's would always tell them that I was very nice, and when people would get to know me they were surprised at how nice I was because they figured I thought I was better then everyone else. I have never been like that in my life. I like people and I have always been nice to all people, but if people don't actually take the time to get to know people and just judge them on looks they may be missing out on getting to know really nice people.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
Yeah we stand a good chance to loose nice people at the same time i do not wish to convince and change their mind to perceive me to be a good person!The ones who failed to extract would be flooded with questions when i meet them personally!great day.
@jonnie7 (51)
• United States
31 Dec 10
First of all HAPPY NEW YEARS TO ALL OF MY-LOT... Second they do that to me all the time. And when they truly know who I am, they are like "oh you are a cool guy" and i am like "of course I am a cool guy, what did you think I was". He told me I was the boring guy who does never hang out or does anything fun. Once he got to know me he knew I was pretty fun to hang around with.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
2 Jan 11
Welcome to Mylot :) LOL i do not blow my own tantrums and i would let them know me completely ... that where i prefer to be silent.Anyone with working brains knows me as if i'm good or bad,clever or dumb!
• United States
31 Dec 10
ive ran into that. usually i can read people well but they always peg me as innocent, shy, traditional, goody goody and dumb.. when im the opposite and i love watching people be shocked when they realized they were wrong
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
31 Dec 10
Its quiet funny to see their shocking faces
@drannhh (15226)
• United States
31 Dec 10
I really don't much care what people conclude about me...as long as they stay out of my way. Anyone with the teeniest little brain knows that I am a decent person and if they want to waste their precious time disliking me, that is their character defect not mine. Hah! And you thought YOU had the corner on arrogance? Pshawwwwww. And MUWAAAAAAH back atcha, my fun and cool friend. Keep on keeping on.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
31 Dec 10
Its fun actually to know as what went through people's mind when they have seen us for the very first time. Happy New Year
• Pamplona, Spain
18 Feb 11
Hiya sunny, People get the wrong end of the stick about me too sometimes. I am usually very quiet but very outgoing as well. I like to listen to others for ages before I take any stage in their conversation that is most of the time. I can be very outgoing and take up a conversation with someone whom I donĀ“t even know and we can all be laughing in a few seconds. I know what you mean about how People see you. At School this was another problem for me being very small and very quiet even that could cause People to get negative opinions about you. How about that for not even saying a word? But when I did speak in Class I did used to leave them with their Mouths open sometimes too.