Qualities of your spouse

Not applicable to me, but I feel the best qualities according to me are give and take, consistency, fairness, balance, hard working, honest, caring - siva

I prefer that my hubby should be intelligent, knowledgeable and analyse the situations well and take a correct decision and prompt decision. Beauty and money are secondary to me.

Hi dear, Happy New Year to you. Long time not seen in mylot. Hope you are doing fine. Regarding the topic, I think it is better not to expect any special qualities. Love the spouse as the way he/she is. If we expect some special qualities and can’t find it after the marriage then it may be disappointing and the troubles may start from there. Try to understand the negatives as well as positives of the spouse. Adjusting and understanding is the key to get a successful marriage. Each and every person expects only good qualities in spouse but human beings have the negatives and positives.

Why does the marriage have to be fixed for this question? I think in any marriage there are three things that are very important. Honesty, trust, and fun. I think you have to be able to believe your spouse and trust your spouse, with out those two things a marriage can not work. I think in order for a marriage to be successful you have to have fun together and truly enjoy one another's company.

hi vathsala garu, we think that we must have a wife/husband with some qualities ,which we like,but nothing is in your hands,Marriages are made in Heaven,but we have to adjust with the spouse and lead the life,we have to take the good qualities of spouse not the bad qualities and lead the life accordingly,have a nice day

Hello my friend vathsala30 Ji, Happy New Year. I would like to go for Character instead quality, with assurance taht both will take care of each other, Money/Beauty/Nature will automatically Balanced. There is one good saying where it is lastly said, if Charcter is lost everything is lost May God bless You and have a great time.

I would prefer an outspoken, loving, understanding and a mature person to be my spouse. When we get married we are totally new to its intricacies and only a straight forward and understanding person can help you to keep your marriage happy. Be it husband or wife, love and trust are the two main ingredients for a happy and successful marriage. Happy mylotting.

hello vathsala, This reminds me of my supposed to be wedding (an arranged one) To answer your question your question,when i was a kid i used to believed in fairy tales. I love reading fantasy books and i dreamed of marrying my prince in shining armor. A handsome priest from a far away kingdom. It did happened,my prince come to my rescue weeks before my arranged marriage takes place. My prince is handsome,but not a rich one. And the sad part of my fairy tale story is,it's not a "happily ever after" ending. Yes,i was able to marry someone who is handsome but not rich. Has the qualities that i admire,he has a great voice of a singer and knows how to play various music instrument. He is smart and intelligent (i found men sexy the way they speak with brains) He is a loving person (and he still loves other women hahaha my luck ugh!) Well,my fairy tale story ends ...not a happy ending but it's fine i have my "freedom" that's all i asks. But i never ever regretted turning my back from my supposedly arranged marriage,i am sure i will not be happy with it also,because i don't love the guy of my parents choice. Love matters most when it comes to marriage. (but love also is the reason why other marriages broke...it is when LOVE is gone) Have a great weekend dear

Hmm, I don't expect too much from my spouse if marriage counseling was necessary. Actually, I just want my souse to be sincere, and true to herself. Not that kind of girl that like a gold digger. I just don't want that.

Vathsalaji I was married in 1968 to kalyani, she was just 16 then, it was an arranged marriage, by my parents, i saw her for the first time in honey-moon night No love affars, no courtship etc We are a very very happy couple I always prayed our gods, goddesses to give me the best, and i got it.. Marriages are done in heaven, i believe Thank you so much. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead.