Skinny is sexy.

@alokijon (665)
Malaysia
January 3, 2011 2:11am CST
I can see that from my personal experience being skinny and lanky is very sexy and attractive for some people. If you mention that you are chubby, stocky or fat in any social website, you will for sure get less response or click. That is how I can that people will always go for skinny or lanky men or women. What do you say?
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@xRawrx (41)
• United States
5 Jan 11
People are always going to look at the hot people. They're nice to look at of course! Its only cause sexy is defined visually at first. Till you get to know that person, the more you know, the less, or more sexy and attractive they become. There is a line that defines sexy. An extremely fat person, is unattractive at sight. Then you have the skinny skinny people, unactivate. Then you have people who have too much neck fat, or the bubble overflowing butt, unattractive. Then there are people that are overweight, but still well proportioned, with a pretty face, they don't get to be seen as sexy. Though if you talk to that person, they'll grow on you and your view may change just due to getting to know them. That goes for any person with an unattractive feature at first. Crooked tooth, big nose, just whatever that one thing is. Sexy... Thats just a look, when it comes down to it, sexy is only sexy if its the person you're with. Cause the sexy sexy hot person you don't know and think you want to know, is probably not the person you want in your life in the end.
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@SIMPLYD (78118)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Perception of being sexy varies in every individual. But in general, sexiness means a hot body or having those voluptuous body but not skinny. Skinny is only nice for modelling those dresses. But for those pants, you have to be voluptuous and have long slim legs. For me, sexy means having long legs and a voluptuous body . . .not skinny.
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• Canada
3 Jan 11
I am a very heavy girl. Muscle and fat together. Luckily my fat is mostly in the right places and does not hang in rolls. A lot of it is in my chest, which works in my favour. But, even at a size 18 (in Canada) I could post honest, recent pics of myself, and get a TON of responses on the dating site I was on. I did not want to waste my time lying about myself and meeting guys only to have them reject me because I wasn't their type, so the very first thing I put in my profile was that I was heavy and athletic. I can go jogging, I can swim a km in just over 20 min, I can do 50 full pushups...but I'm heavy! There's no point pretending to be skinny, I need a man who likes bigger girls! And now I have one, and we have a beautiful daughter.
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@maezee (31567)
• United States
3 Jan 11
I think beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes. BUT I would have to agree that most men go for skinny or skinny "with curves" types of girls. I don't blame them. I kind of agree. Maybe it's the media brainwashing us into believing what's considered 'beautiful' or maybe it's just what we're attracted to on our own. It's so hard to tell. I don't think stick-thin is beautiful OR sexy though, at least not for girls. I think a little meat on your bones is a good thing - curves are always a plus. I don't like when I see size 00 girls who essentially look like 12 year old boys. (Especially like supermodels). THAT is not sexy if you ask me (although we're all entitled to our own opinions). As far as men go, physically fit is a good thing although not necessarily "skinny" or "lanky" as those usually aren't admirable traits on men (in my opinion, again).
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@fgb_fritz (278)
• Philippines
3 Jan 11
i think its depend on your body fit and posture, there are skinny people that looks old and looks like skeleton. skinny people with board shoulders are sexy, which i am belong :) but sometimes, chubby people are attractive in my eyes, actually i like them because they are very huggable i like to hug :)
@shaggin (36328)
• United States
19 Jan 11
I dont think that just because someone is fat that they will get less comments on their discussions or responses on their facebook profile. Some guys might leave more comments trying to get closer to a girl to hook up with her though. Some people like heavier women. Its not a rule that every guy only likes skinny girls.
@leeh2229 (85)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
well it is maybe hard to accept but in reality it is true.. cause it is the STIGMA brought to us by the society. Being Skinny is much more attractive cause it is nice to look at! But personally i believe that it is defend on how you carry yourself, on how you bring yourself in a conversation. ;)
@leeh2229 (85)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
well it is maybe hard to accept but in reality it is true.. cause it is the STIGMA brought to us by the society. Being Skinny is much more attractive cause it is nice to look at! But personally i believe that it is defend on how you carry yourself, on how you bring yourself in a conversation. ;)
@sriroshan (2586)
• India
4 Jan 11
My friend it is depend upon person to person I like the tall and hefty person and I enjoy the company of such person But majority of the man like the thin lady but but thin lady always prefer the hefty person as her partner
@celticeagle (117267)
• Boise, Idaho
4 Jan 11
Being skinny and lanky is more attractive to most people because it screams healthy. We are literally animals and we seak out those that can extenuate the race. We look for the healthy, sexually able to do this. As we grow older and out of the productive years those needs demenish to some degree because we are no longer looking for those to repopulate.
@tvarasu10 (101)
• India
4 Jan 11
your personal experience is right and people prefer skinny and slim.
• China
4 Jan 11
Personally speaking, I like girls with hot body. I don't like girls who are skinny and lanky.
• China
4 Jan 11
ya ,since being slim is in. most people think that silm people are most attractive. however, as a middle-weight woman with broad shoulders, I do not like skinny, but lanky. take Beyonce for example, she is charming and attractive while she is absolutely not skinny, kinda chubby. she still has many fans.
@Liliac26 (558)
• Romania
4 Jan 11
To me, feeling good in your own skin is the sexiest thing (as long as you're healthy). Beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyway.
• Philippines
3 Jan 11
it depends cuz people have their own preferences. but as i observe most people think that skinny is the standard for sexy and attractive. thats why girls put alot of effort on losing weight. personally, chubby is fine but overweight is not.
@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
3 Jan 11
i totally disagree with that. am sorry. Skinny people is not nice at all. I prefer slim or chubby. i think its just one's preference afterall. I won't mind having a chubby girlfriend if there is love between us.
• United States
3 Jan 11
I see that, too and I think it's absolutely disgusting. There is nothing wrong with people who aren't skinny and it's NOT true that "people will always go for skinny". There are plenty of people who are attracted to "fat" people.
@advokatku (4037)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 11
For me, skinny or fat remains sexy as long as not excessive. Over thin, just will make impres as less vitamin people while over fat, just make impres as lazy people.
@tiina05 (2319)
• Philippines
3 Jan 11
yes that is true but it is too unfair for those people who are not that sexy.