Sons love life..lol!

@bunnybon7 (35900)
Holiday, Florida
January 3, 2011 3:29pm CST
Hope you all are not tired of hearing about the updates of sons love life. It probably gets old. but a few have asked to be kept updated. as so many responded to other discussions about my misery from the last 2. Well, Agra, has went on to get married to someone else. That woman knows how to get on with things..Lol! shes still a friend and calls some to see how im doing and I even felt sorry for her for a while, as im a kind of dumb and dont carry a grudge. guess im a big push over Are you like that? Then last year, that one in New York visited for 2 months with her 8 yr old and even the dog! she was such a basket case and teaching her son all the wrong things. they bout drove me nuts, but as my cousins said a few times, its not far to drive for me. Just the same, i guess it was A good thing, as son saw, it wouldnt work out not just because of me but the kid made a lot of problems between them also. Now, sons found a very sweet nice gal about 50 miles away and I think hes finally taken my advice and not go crazy for one as soon as they meet. I do hope this new one though will soon keep him from being sad about the last one. He did love her and maybe still does. actually, as bad as she was for us, I still feel sorry for her as shes taken it very hard. Have you ever felt sorry for an enemy?
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@dragon54u (31605)
• United States
3 Jan 11
Good, I'm glad he's found someone and I hope it turns out well! Yes, I've felt sorry for an enemy. The woman who my husband left me for, for example. It's by no means a bed of roses and they have their problems. I do feel sorry for her sometimes. I also feel kind of glad that things are settling down and their lives are becoming more even because I want him to be happy. I will never have a place in my heart for her but I'm sorry for her when she's unhappy because that means he is unhappy, too. I no longer love him as any more than a distant friend but I want him to be happy. Other than that I have rarely, if ever, felt sorry for an enemy. It takes a LOT for me to think of someone as an enemy and they've usually done something horrible and so rotten that only God would be good enough to forgive them.
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@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Jan 11
well, maybe they arent really an enemy. not sure but they have put me through a bit. one has apologized. the one i call agra, she was a friend before she met my son and became a foe over the yrs. you probably feel sorry for that woman because you know how your ex is and therefor know how hes being with her.
@MsTickle (24962)
• Australia
8 Jan 11
I try to find balance in everything and hope that the good outweighs the bad. It's not always the case so I don't waste my time feeling sorry for those people. I do however, thank my lucky stars that I was able to move on...and move away.
@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Jan 11
good for you. i really wish i wasnt such a pansy. at least im glad sons found a better woman even though i feel for miss know it all. you know
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@MsTickle (24962)
• Australia
9 Jan 11
She needs to wake up to herself. She was only after what she could get, an easy ride through life in her case. She is ruining her child and he will find no happiness as an adult if she doesn't figure things out soon.
@celticeagle (117747)
• Boise, Idaho
4 Jan 11
You know down on the left lower side of the notification there is a button called 'delete'. Right? If I don't care for, or am bored with, a subject on here I just delete it an move on! LOL Yours rarely bore me. It sounds like your son has finally realized that mom knows what she is talking about. Hope it works out.
@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
4 Jan 11
and so it seems to be since he finally came to his senses. i really do hate to hear someone crying and in pain but theres no help for it i guess. like i told him, be honest with her and deal with it as soon as possible and he has.
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@celticeagle (117747)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Jan 11
Honesty is the best policy. Then people know where they stand and can move on.
@gabs8513 (48717)
• United Kingdom
15 Jan 11
Hi Bunny Well I hope that it all works out for the best this time Bunny as I think your Son deserves a Break I would not feel sorry for the other one as she did nothing to try and keep the relationship going to a level where it could have worked I hope it works out this time I really do
@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
16 Jan 11
hi sweetie, you get more rest girl and get better. yes i think this is the one and if not at least hes starting to understand its just as well to have a gf instead of a live in
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
7 Jan 11
Do we ever remember how much that one from New York drove you nuts. I think that your son deserves someone that is going to be good for him, but I also think that he deserves to have a woman in his life that isn't going to cause conflict between yourself and him. I kind of like that this new girl is only 50 miles away from you all because that won't be a relationship that will be as hard to maintain as the relationship with Ms. New York would have been.
@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Jan 11
yes im happy for him and she seems very nice. except hes been having to go visit her. for the whole weekend because her cars getting fixed. next week she will be able to visit us again. shes pretty sweet and pretty to.
• United States
4 Jan 11
You are too funny! Does you son know that you discuss his love online? Just curious. You obviously are a great mother and it is great that you are so concerned. More parents should be like you and take an interest in everything, including their children's love life. I would just caution you not to get too overly involved and hopefully he is making his own decision because you don't want to make decisions for him. I wish your son happiness and success! Happy New Year
@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
4 Jan 11
happy new year to you to. no, i think son finally came to realize for himself that she wasnt for him. yes, ive told him about mylot and he knows i do this but hes fine with it since no one knows him personally here.
@ElicBxn (60825)
• United States
4 Jan 11
well, I do when they seem to have invited the pain on themselves, but not enough to do anything if they won't take good advice when its given them that woman has a monster of her own making in her son - so I figure she deserves whatever he dishes out for her he's still at an age where he could be corrected, but she's not willing to do it, so - too bad, so sorry, good bye
@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
4 Jan 11
yes thats a lot of her problem. plus now shes called crying a few times because my son has decided a long distance relationship is not working, plus, hes been lonely for a companion or gf, whatever she and he have both realized its over. but shes taking it quite hard. son has also had some sadness over it all, but my advice to get back out there has helped. he now has the nice new gf to sooth him.
@ANTIQUELADY (36489)
• United States
3 Jan 11
I hope everything works out for him. I think he was trying too hard. Fell sorry for an enemy, to be honest, no i don't.
@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
4 Jan 11
i know. im just a big boob or push over i suppose. thanks lady. have a good one.
@GardenGerty (98163)
• United States
3 Jan 11
I feel sorry for my son's ex. They are not divorced, but will be. I feel sorry for her son as well. She just is very inappropriate and drives people away, even her own family.
@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Jan 11
so sorry. maybe she is spoiled? or a bit nuts? and dont know how to treat people. which is the case with sons last gf. i still feel sorry for her son. as she dont want to listen to anyones advice thats raised kids already.
• United States
3 Jan 11
I actually have felt sorry for the enemy as I could not help but to think that unless they change their ways they are going to be continually hurt. It is unfortunate that they do not realize the pain they cause until they actually get hurt. I wish your son a great deal of happiness, you never know bunny we might hear continual updates about little ones running around some day. Best of luck to you and your family.
@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Jan 11
thanks hardworkinggurl. but i sure hope we are not going to have little ones running around this one is not one for patience with kids for one thing and she says shes never wanted any. the economy the way it is just wouldnt be fair to bring one into the world unless you are filthy rich these days.
@Hatley (164671)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Jan 11
hi bunnybon maybe hes realized that the kid alone would have driven him nuts too. I am glad he has found a really sweet girl and maybe she is the 'one if he just relaxes a bit and enjoy just being with her. I only had six weeks before we married but we were more mature and somehow it was like he had been picked out for me.He and I had a lot in common although as types we were total opposites, I was the introvert and he was a real extrovert.but somehow we just complemented each other.I have felt sorry for someone I really did not like as she was catty and always threw barbed comments at me. she was jealous of me for marrying the orderly of our hospital as though he was her property. He never made any play for her but she just wished he had.But I felt sorry for her as she was so alone and missed her wealthy husband although I think it was more his money as she was running out which is why she was working at St.LUkes. She just did not know how to budget her money and just spent without thinking of the consequences. He had left several million dollars but it was going too fast. we tried to caution her to put most all of the millions into saving account and live on the interest which did amount to plenty to live on monthly. but her tastes were more exotic than ours were as she only wanted the best. \
@bunnybon7 (35900)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Jan 11
OMG, sounds worse then the way i spent all mine. mine was mostly on the kids. my youngest 2. yes, i can see how you felt sorry for her as she didnt get the prize and you did for one thing. also, you probably understand that sometimes some people have no idea how to manage money as they were raised wrong and just cant get it.