Here I go thinking again....

ya have to tell them each day ya love them. I sort of wish I asked hubby what he thought about when he was outside just looking around and down he street. SHould have also listened to stories grandparents talked about I listened to most but sometimes I ended up going to sleep for it was always at night and I just was lulled to sleep whe nthey were talking!

Lots of questions have come up about my mom's family now that she's not around to ask any more. She was the oldest, and the younger ones don't remember quite as much as she did...

yes in the past 5 yrs. ive done nothing but talk with my kids about my time coming and they really dont want to hear it but they know how i feel and ive been sick so much. so they know all they need to about what i want and how much i love them, etc.

I have a lot of unanswered questions too. I think that there will always be those for us that are left behind. I don't have the family relationship that I dreamed of as a child, but I am ok with that. It took me a long time to realize that my efforts alone could not forge a relationship with people that didn't want the same at the time. The ones I was close to are gone now. I do try to make sure that the people that are close to me know how much I care for them. I try to make examples that they will carry with them after I am gone and I also give them the "real" me. Not perfect, but trying hard at being good.

The family I grew up in, we were not fond of saying 'I love you' all the time. But now that I have a family of my own, I've grown to realize how important it is to say it every chance I get. I'm sure that there are things that I've done that I'm not proud of. And maybe my kids will find out about it as they grow up. But as long as I let them know that I love them, then I could at least have a certain peace of mind all the time.

Though I have not seen the tv program, I used to think the same topic at several times. Because the things are changing so fast around. Till now we have a very close relationship and I am so deep in love with my children. I know it won't stay long may be once they grow up. So it is my technique that I used express the feel of love by expressing it and making them understand also. But the interactions with others make them handicapped. ll the children around are not fully equipped or experienced in such a way and the morale of our children are easily get corrupted when they get indulged with a group of other social people. But I do my best to keep the relations in a pure and best way so far. thanks

I learned from my husband that action speaks louder than word. My husband is not fond of saying i love you face to face. Even when we were bf - gf , he just said it once when he proposed his love to me. At all times, a simple kiss on the lips or a hug would tell me he loves me so much. At the house, when he asks me if i am tired so he could continue what i am doing in the chores, would simply means he loves me. At night, a tight hug and a kiss on the lips to say goodnight to each other would affirm our love for each other. Me, i would say so to my husband but he won't say it back but merely hug me tight.