Still hard to forget

@rifnee (1713)
Indonesia
January 16, 2011 9:11am CST
I'm hard to forget my first boyfriend. And I've had no love for him. I do not expect him back, but really I can not forget him.lol. How could I forget my first boyfriend?
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5 responses
• Indonesia
19 Jan 11
Love the first two or three that we can not forget. forgetting is impossible. that makes us continue to imagine him is fear that will feel pain forever. real fear that only appear when first we farewell. You are also too glorifying it or the relationship you previously as "first love". it will make you keep thinking about it. that can make you feel comfortable slowly it's just time. trust me on time. Live it your life without your first love, though with pain initiated or overshadowed by it, time will help you get better.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 11
It is true that first love that will be remembered forever and hard to forget. That is due Enormity first love. You should frequently consult to your close friends who can you trust, if not consult the parents that you think could help your problem. The most appropriate solution is often to bring the family for the holidays, try often joking with family members, especially with your wife, at least to some extent can help you to relieve your mind to your first love. Good luck
@lazette (216)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
How old are you now? If you're still in your teens (or early 20s even), then you've still got a LOT ahead of your life. You can't let one measly boyfriend ruin it all for you. Love or not, the fact that you can't forget him is because he still holds a place in your heart. Saying you don't love him anymore when you can't even forget him is just not plausible. Try making yourself busy with other things. I find friends the best people to be around with when trying to forget someone.
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
How can you say that you don't love your first boyfriend when it seems that it's hard for you to forget him. Although you don't expect that you two can be together again. The best thing for you to do is go out and hang out with someone so that you can divert your attention to other things.
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
Me too! Even though I am happily married now, I still have vivid memories of my first boyfriend. He is living in the US now, and he is also happily married. And we still get in touch. I guess we can never really forget our first boyfriend, because being "first" made it glued on our minds. Let's just have it that way and treasure the memories.