Behind every untrusting girl is the boy who taught her to be that way ?

Hi. Your post has caught my eye. Yes, I believe so. Girls are the trusting sort, especially when it's the first time they encountered a boy who shows affection and kindness to them. They often judge those boys who treat them like a princess as trustworthy and safe. However, once they get their hearts broken over and over, they become wary. Sometimes to avenge their broken heart or ego, they play or toy with boys' feelings. Well, same goes with boys, actually, who have gotten their hearts broken over a girl. :)

Yes this is very much true. I'm currently in a relationship with the same guy for 5 years now but eventhough we have been together for that long I still don't give him my 100% trust. He actually cheated on me once before and because of what happened, i am always suspicious about his whereabouts and neer seem to be trusting him when he goes out alone.

yes, this is true.. sadly but true.. because once the trust is broken even once, it has marked in the girl's heart and she will always remember the hurtful things she had to endure. naturally, the girl will protect her heart and there is no blaming her.

I personally think that once the trust has been broken because of what the guy has done or said,it is very difficult for the girl to be as trusting as before. Wouldn't the guy react the same way if it was the other way round?

This sounds so true and familiar to me that I had to post a response. I believe that there is a huge amount of truth that surrounds this statement. In my own experience I have been hurt many times in the past and each and every situation has had an effect on my ability to trust. As it stands now, I am with a wonderful man but my emotions being so high because of crap from the past have made me question the relationship that we have and do things that are detrimental and potentially destructive to a good relationship. Thank you all the jerks from the past for making me this way. I am seeking help asap to try and regain control of my emotions, hopefully I can do this before it is too late and I lose the only man in the world that truly understands me and loves me for who I am.

I was untrusting even before here was a boy in my life. The opposite was true for me. I became a trusting girl after I met a boy who I could trust. I think there were lots of other people in my life who taught me not to trust such as family and friends.