There are some people in my family who wont talk to me because I have decided

That's so sad. Family is supposed to support each other no matter what. Maybe the reason they are avoiding you is because they think they will be able to persuade you to go to that church. Try explaining your side, though I doubt that they would listen. Your parent's might even shout at you for trying. Some people are too attached to their religion that they think that it's the only appropriate and right religion.

the fact that you dont want to go to chuch should not make your relatives to not speak with you. They are wrong because what Jesus said about evangelization is :" that is not by force.." But let's try to understand why they are acting like this? In the firt place is because they love you.. and it is because they dont have not much knowledge. But relax , they are gaining knowledge, they will realize the error. Giong to church is great, it's a real therapy and the more one goes the more they learns about the word of God, The more we see that we dont know anything... and the more we try to learn about it, our faith encreases. The bible says that faith comes from practice in reading and hearing the word of God.. and this is true. You know what they should do?? Pray for you, inviting but respecting your choice. They give up a little and maybe you will realize that once in a while you accompany your mother to church by kindness, it will not hurt this much.. I hope there is peace in your home. Sometimes, harmon y is only a matter of not being radical.

I think it is up to each person. They can believe in god and not go to church. I left the one we went to because of all the fighting that went on.

Hi little franciscan: I understand your point of view. We sometimes experimented these episodes, so my advice would be- try to focus on your spiritual area and go to a church that makes you feel complete on this spiritual area. I think that you are right and I respect your point of view. Your family members should understand that you need to feel comfortable with your beleifs so you must be convinced of the religious things you do. ALVARO

Let me first tell you that I have a great respect for your decision. Everyone has a principle in his or her life. You're a practical person. You believe that mere preaching or chanting is not going to help. You believe in reaching out for all those who need help. This is a very pragmatic approach. I have seen people who speaks of great intentions and lofty ideals. But then when they see a see distressed child in the street, they try their best to avoid them. This is quite paradoxical. The presence of divinity in your soul is reflected by your kindness. If you are spreading love and warmth that way, you are actually serving God. Let me tell you that, I am very proud of you and this only increases my respect and admiration for you even more.

that's really too bad. Family shouldn't give up on eachother. Hopefully you can work things out.