What if I have a dad ......?

@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
January 17, 2011 5:16am CST
what if a father has a hard head, that if it says A then we are required to follow. whereas in the liver do not want to do that because of the belief that it is wrong and if we are denied then he will be angry and pulled out a sword in his mouth and then careful to be torn. what to do?
3 responses
@EdnaReyes (2628)
• Philippines
24 Jan 11
We can choose our friends but not our family. This is true so we must live and bear with them . A father is the ideal a child look up to and he must posses every good things a child should learn in his growing up years. But how can a child be properly raise if that ideal do not correspond to its image? A sour tree bears sour fruits, a saying that seems to be true in children that had gone wrong cause they're been raised by unideal parents. Why not talk to your father, ask him if there's problem, remind him that he's your father and must in all aspect act like one. Being the good example that you must follow. Show him you're a sensible child and you will not be wanting to lose your respect in him and that you love him as a father and an ideal that you want to be not only to his children but for himself, too!
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@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 11
In some situations I'm always thinking about my father, how he should behave to his child, but it is very difficult for me to communicate with him, it's an ironic reality, I love my father like other people loved his father, on the other hand I have a trauma with multiple events happened to me caused by my father.
• Indonesia
19 Jan 11
Indeed, sometimes we come across people who have such properties. It is the innate nature of birth, so do not even think to try to change it, because he himself could not change it. which certainly should not be confronted with violence, it means do not argue with your father even though you think his opinion is not quite right. To deal with such a distinguished nature there is only one way, try slowly and gently through each spoken word with your dad. Often talked about everything, ask for his opinion in solving problems that you face, then he'll feel you close to your dad, do not let you make your father feel at trivial. Vast pay attention, ask his health condition, etc.. Anyway, hook up your father's close enough.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 11
You know, I'm so jealous to see other people who have a father who was gentle and wise.
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• Indonesia
25 Jan 11
ah, you're not too sad, rest assured that there are still many people who love you.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 11
Dad's not so stubborn, because it is not feasible as the son said his father was stubborn. More accurate to say that authoritarian father. Indeed children are more often victims of feeling, but can be made aware that any utterance or ordered it through the mother. If the mother also can not, then back often to read the scriptures associated with a father in raising his son, and read aloud-reading (let him hear.) It should also be submitted to the grandmother, brother or sister's father. Do not let her drag on sinning that he was not aware of. Frequently brought in prayer, for the Lord opened the eyes of his heart and is pleased to guide him.