Is it good

United States
January 17, 2011 7:46pm CST
My boyfriend will pick me up and i will go to his house for a few days at a time..The first day we spend every minute together after that we kinda do our own thing... We often get into arguments over money also...Currently i am unemployed so have no income and he has an income he complains there is nothing to do cause he spends his money on pointless stuff...is this normal in a new relationship?!???
4 responses
• United States
18 Jan 11
Not to sure if this is normal in a new relationship, but maybe he feels hurt inside because he is the only one paying for things in the relationship and he cant afford it by himself and needs your help with it as well. Going out to dinner or to the movies is not cheap not a days and he needs help sometimes with all the nice things couples do in life. I know right now i need extra money to just pay the bills and im online making the most i can and righ tnow it really isnt enough for me and my boyfriend. I am hoping he gets a job soon even though he gets a monthly income from a motorcycle accident he had three years ago it isnt enough for us to live on and i do work full time and then again it isnt enough for us to live on and get out of our parents house and be on our own one day. Just a thing for you to think about. Have a good night.
• United States
18 Jan 11
The thing is me and my boyfriend dont really leave the house
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
I think when the two of you are in a new relationship arguments are not so often because what you are feeling in early relationships is that the two of you are in a love nest. He should be doing things to make you trust him and make you like him even more. I think he has no right to complain if you have no work. My husband doesn't even complain about me being unemployed as of the moment, how much more if he is just a boyfriend. he should be helping you instead of complaining. So, it is not really good that the two of you are always arguing. It is not healthy in a relationship, especially that you are still starting with it.
• Portugal
18 Jan 11
im sorry that you just started a relation and there is a lot of arguements already. i feel sad for you. i think that your bf should be more supportive. you dont have a job so he could lend you a bit when you needed instead of argue^^ he should be sweet to you and support you anytime. i think that that way you can be happier and he can also^^ talk with him and tell him how you are feeling. im sure he will change his attitude^^
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
Since you're new in your relationship, there's a lot of adjustment going on. Try to cope up with his own thing while maintaining your own.Avoid money as an issue in your relationship, Make him see you as your own person and him as he is. Enjoy your being together and may your relationship prosper and bloom into a more serious one! Happy Loving each other.:)