Your boyfriend didn't treat me like i did,what can i do???

@jricky1 (6808)
China
January 18, 2011 2:06am CST
I have a boyfriend recently,but i find that i bring all my heart to him,but he didn't....The point is that we start the relationship recently,does time the problem between us?Or what other reasons else?He knows how much i love him...BUT..
3 responses
@aprilsong (1886)
• China
18 Jan 11
Hi, jricky, i am sorry to hear your worry. And you know what? If you can't feel he love you, then there is no doubt he not really loves you. You said you just started your relationship recently, maybe he is still in the period of getting to know you, and doesn't want to fix that relationship so soon. I think we all need time to know each other. If so, that will be a good sign, at least we can say he is not that kind of playboys who develops a relationship too quickly and with that only bad aim. And i recommend you not pour all your heart to you so soon. You know, we females should not let men know how much we love them, at least not let them know it so soon. Men sometimes like kids, they don't cherish those things they can easily get. Treating him too good maybe do harm to your relationship. Yes, we should use heart in relationship, but we also need some skills and tactics. I do hope you two can develop in the right direction. Just don't push, give him and yourself more time, you know, knowing a person is really a hard thing, so we can't be more careful in choosing our life partners. If he really loves you, wish you two happy. If time proves he not loves you, then it is a blessing leaving him. You know, there will comes your true love in the future. Best wishs to you!
@jricky1 (6808)
• China
26 Jan 11
Hi there. Thank you for your sincere advice and i will try to talk to him and know how is he thinking about me,maybe its time matters,but i really dont want this. And just like what you said,i wont push and just flow it.If he really does like me,i will give him another chance and told him what i thought,but if he does not,i think i'd change my mind and know clearly what i should do next..Anyway,thank you and really thks for your sincere advice. And also best wishes to you and happy mylotting!
@graxcrix (19)
18 Jan 11
hey there ricky! it really depends on your boyfriend on what's goin on to your relationship. find time to talk to him regarding this matter. sometimes poeple are just too busy or you may never notice that its you who are busy & lack of time for him. i suggest that you both work things out & try to talk about things for both of you. GoodLuck!!=)
@jricky1 (6808)
• China
26 Jan 11
Hey,really thanks for giving me such advice. I'll find some time to talk with him and try to know what his thoughts. And i think maybe its time matters but i don't really wants this problem.Anyway,i will certainly find that how he think of me... Thank you,thank you .And wish you happy mylotting!!
@yhanie (189)
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
how sure r you that your bf didn't also give his heart to you?? just stay with him for about a month or 2 and if he still doesnt change, make a decision and make sure that it's the right thing to do
@jricky1 (6808)
• China
26 Jan 11
Thank you,really thank you for your advice.I'll definitely try my best.If we could really get along with each other and he likes me.I like to give it another shot! Thank you!