how many times had you been heartbroken?

India
January 18, 2011 10:45pm CST
how many times your heart has been broken and what is the most common reason for that, mine most common reason for the heartbreak is breakup, what is yours?
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@joygracia (1328)
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
I had my heart broken twice. First was when I was really into a guy that doesn`t even know me but he was really the almost perfect guy if only he was a little bit interested in me. My second heart breaks was the most painful. I got cheated with and I did realize at the end that he was not really into me after 3 years of being together.
• India
22 Jan 11
ohh, it hurts a lot when we come to know that some one has played and cheated on us.........
@Sanitary (3969)
• Singapore
22 Jan 11
NOt many times for me. I'm someone who can be hurt easily but i don't get heartbroken all the time. It takes a lot of hurt things to get me heartbroken. I'm not a strong woman, it's only i look at things in a different angle, preventing myself from getting heartbroken over something not worth it. BReakup in a relationship is not necessarily heartbreak for me because it means a new beginning in life, and i should be happy to leave my sad past.
• India
22 Jan 11
nice positive thinking, your approach and outlook towards the life makes you very hard to be broken by anyone,and its quite appreciable:)
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• India
21 Jan 11
I also had my breakup but it was just once. When my first girlfriend lift me i found it real hard to trust any other girl any longer. So i have decided to be alone in my life and trying to stay that way. Recently i just saw another girl who blew up my mind but i am not sure if i should be in a relationship with her. I seriously don't know what to do now. Cheers!
• India
22 Jan 11
it happens dude, when some one closer to us hurts us then it becomes to trust on anyone else, but it's a part of life, move ahead and live your life,if a girl has left you, it doesnt mean that everyone will leave you, be positive and give it a second chance (with that another girl) and see whether it works or not
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
Greetings! Many times. My heart had been broken for so many times. Besides from break up, some reason are just because they don't love me back, they love someone else, and lack courage to say that I love them. I had love some though we're not in a relationship, we go out, we're dating but we're not committed and I was shocked one day when I found out that he had a girlfriend already and I regret the day that I didn't tel him that I love him. I also had the situation wherein I tell the guy that I love him but he refused to love me back and it really hurts. I had so broken hearted many times because of loving the wrong person.
• India
20 Jan 11
i m also sailing in the same boat with you, i have been heartbroken hell a lot of time, sometimes because of girlfriend factor, sometimes because f being ditched by friends and closed ones:(
@czylove (33)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
many times. some of the reasons are the lack of closeness and connection,not making the relationship a priority.
• India
19 Jan 11
then u have to work seriosly on that.......
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
I was broken hearted once. It took me awhile to accept the fact. I went through Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression until finally Acceptance. It wasn't easy. But the relationship was still restored as good friends..=)
• India
19 Jan 11
all is well that ends well:)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
I had my heart broken twice. The first time my heart broke was when I fell in love with my best friend and he didn't reciprocate that love. I've witnesed how he chased other woman and not recogzI waited for him for six struggling years to love me back but in the end, I end up quitting because I realized and accepted that he's not the right man for me. The second time I had my heart broken was when I met a man who showed interest in me after my heart was broken with my best friend. I eventually for him as well though we didn't have any formal relationship. When I learned to love him back suddenly I realized that he was already gone. He left the church where we first met. He refused meeting us including me. I was deeply hurt because it took courage for me to love again after my heart was broken with my best friend. After those heart aches, I decided to move on and trust love again (though that wasn't easy). Then, I realized that I have to experience those pain so I can understand that love is not always being happy all the time, it will also bring you pain to help you mature in love. I'm now happy because I've finally met my TRUE LOVE- my husband, who promised to love me for the rest of our lives. Our relationship isn't perfect but I am still happy because both of us are striving hard to make it perfect somehow. :)
@lyamsitiy (104)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
I've had my heart broken badly once because of the same reason as yours, breakup. And now i feel like my heart is breaking not because we are breaking up but because we can't start a relationship. He's the type of guy that does not feel the need of committing yet into a relationship.