Do you really care about your partners past life or would you just be oblivious?

India
January 24, 2011 3:00am CST
Do you guys really care about your lovers/partners past life? I mean how would you react when you happen to come across (accidentally or intentionally)something fishy? Would you just let it go or would you start speculating? And moreover will this apparently lead to a strained relationship? Please share your honest thoughts.
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6 responses
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
23 Aug 11
Trust your instincts. It is almost always a hundred percent true. I felt something was up with my bf and i just can't pin point it... but then God works in wonders and viola!! "Something Fishy" is indeed true ;) Do not Speculate though, make sure to know the truth! I think there is always a chance... if both of you are willing to help each other.. Regarding your question, I would want to know his past, as much as he is willing to share... but I'd not let the past haunt me. At least not the past where i was not part of.
@mamibevs (28)
• Philippines
24 Jan 11
Yes i care the past lovers of my bf, we talk about it,honestly it so fishy but as long as my bf tell me what his past lovers it could be a history..The important me and my bf love each other and i don't care about the past and i just want our love to last. Now, we don't want to talk about our past because no sense over and over..
@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
24 Jan 11
I personally do not care what my lover's past. It is from the past, so I want to focus on what is present. With my last relationship though, I regret not knowing what was my lover's past. If I have known earlier, I may have avoided things to happen. But I think there is a reason for that to happen. I saw the true color of him.
• Indonesia
24 Jan 11
lover it was a very valuable when we have a good time when our relationship, but it could become an enemy to be annoying when we're not good situation.
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 11
I care a lot about my partner's past. I would want to know everything of his past, good or bad, so I would understand him better. Also, because I don't want surprises in future like meeting a past girl friend and both of them behave awkwardly while I know nothing that caused it. But if I know earlier, I would try to ease the conversation so there would not be an awkward moment.
• Philippines
24 Jan 11
Greetings! I would ignore those fishy things. I don't want to hurt myself. Anyway, what matters most is now and not the past. If I learned something about his past, then I would just make his life more better with me, I'll be better than his past girlfriends so that he won't compare me with his past relationships. Another is that, I'll do my best so that he'll forget his past. I mean his bitter past. I'll make present memorable and happy for him because "now" is important than the past. :) Talking about past won't bring any good to relationship. No, not all. so its better to just keep past, as past. :)