5 years from now, will you be 5 years ahead?

planning for the future - being ahead, in the future
@bounce58 (17387)
Canada
January 27, 2011 1:09pm CST
I heard this tag line from one of the bank advertisements around here, and I thought that it was an interesting question. A trick question, but interesting nonetheless. Have you ever thought of such definite planning for your future? Where in there is a particular goal that you want to achieve in a certain amount of time? Wherein if you just did what you’re doing presently, you wouldn’t be ahead? That you have to reach certain milestones or goals to ensure that you are ahead? That you are progressing in a certain pace?
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
28 Jan 11
Guess it'd depend on what "ahead" means to you. Does it means just making it on the same level and not loosing ground, or does it mean doubling what you now have? I'd say as long as you aren't loosing ground, you would be ahead. What I really hate is when they ask you that in a job interview. "where do you see yourself in 5 years from now?". It is so stupid as I would think they would be more concerned with where you see yourself NOW so as to determine if you are where they would want you to be in their company. What diff does it make where you see yourself in 5 years? Right now is what matters and what you are thinking about and hwat they should be thinking about! I even put it to the test, my husband too. THey'd ask us that question or close relation to it, and by then I'd know if I even wanted the job or not, and if not, then I'd answer that quesion with "Sitting behind your desk with your job description". Did I ever get that job? No. Same with my husband. So they don't really want to know "where you see yourself", they just want to make themselves look cool and in control and all, cause they really don't know what the job you are applying for entails and they can't let you know that so they ask stupid questions, thinking you won't notice! And if you do, they don't hire you cause then they know you are smarter than they are and they fear for their job!
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
2 Feb 11
Yep, just tell them what they want to know. I would venture to guess that if they were really interested in hiring you, they wouldn't be asking you that question, they'd be asking what you'd do to improve your job status or help the company. Often people aren't even in the same job "5 years from now".
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
Speaking as someone who's also gone to a lot of interviews, this question which I have also been asked a lot, conjures a lot of 'smart-aleck-y' response from me too. But me being the interviewee realize that this is just a song-and-dance number that I have to go through if I really want the job. So, I suppress what my real thoughts are, and give them impression that they are in control. And give them a response that I think they want to hear. Thanks.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
27 Jan 11
Of course. I don't make 5 year plans, but I have thought of starting to do that. At the moment, I only plan 1 and 3 years ahead.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
Hello puccagirl. I think it is a matter of practice. At first you start out with 1-year plans. And then when you've mastered that, you move on to 3-year plans. And so on to 5-year plans. Goodluck with your planning!
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
4 Jul 12
An interesting discussion for sure. I actually have tried making some goals and thoughts of what I want to be doing etc and would love to have a more successful business by then. It will take a lot of planning, saving and prayer. But I have learned anything is possible when you really put your mind up too it.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
2 Aug 12
It will take a lot of planning, saving and prayer. I think that anything worthwhile doing would definitely need those three ingredients! Thanks for the response.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
27 Jan 11
that is on a bank commercial here in Canada and you are right, it does really make you think. we have been so poor that we havent been really able to save for the future but can only make it day to day.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
31 Jan 11
Oh! I am very familiar with that bank. Sometimes we get to busy with the day to day that we fail to see where we are headed. Or that we've been going downhill for a while. Same here.
@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
27 Jan 11
Well I am now. I've entered school and gotten a part time job. I want to reduce my debt and hopefully soon get a mortgage loan so I can buy a house. Those are my main goals right now, and I hope to have achieved them within the next 5 years.
• United States
1 Feb 11
I just wish I'd been doing that for the past 10 years, then I might be in a better place than I am right now.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
I think you're on your way! I guess that's the reason why you were bent on getting that job(from discussions you've raised here on myLot). It's great to see/know people who have the foresight to plan for their future. Thanks for the response.
• Pamplona, Spain
23 Jun 12
Hiya bounce, Seeing as I live usually from day to day mostly I really don´t know where I will be in five years time. Will I be ahead? I am trying to work at something at the moment which is giving me a lot of challenges but I take it in my stride all I can and try to get to where I can and that´s it. I think if you live too far ahead in the future you cannot appreciate what there is now around you at least not properly. It´s good to plan into the future but you have to be anchored in the present too to be able to plan and try to work whatever it is out.xxx
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
2 Aug 12
That is so true! Sometimes, in my zeal to plan ahead, and to be be prepared for the future, I sometimes forget to appreciate what's happening around me in the 'now'. Thanks for the reminder. And thanks for the response.
@AnythngArt (3302)
• United States
28 Jan 11
While we can never know what the future holds...and life tends to throw some curve balls when you least expect it, it's good to plan ahead. As you get older, the timelines get longer. Instead of what am I going to do next year, you start thinking what am I going to do within five years. I would hope that I would be ahead in five years of where I had planned, but I have experienced plenty of setbacks along the way. As I get closer to retirement, the importance of reaching goals becomes more keen. Very interesting post and answers for this one!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
As you get older, the timelines get longer... By me thinking about my future, I hope it doesn't mean I'm getting old! But you're right, the old-er we get, the greater the expectations we have for ourselves. So plans become keener, as sooner or later the future becomes our reality. Thanks.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Jan 11
hi bounce at my age I only plan ahead a year, before I die I do hope my son can eventually make enough that we can once again move into an apartment and I can leave here and be totally autonomous again .big dreams in this economy but myson told me last monday he has work for all this week and will get paid Five hundred dollars so again I am hoping. when I came here the day before Thanksgiving 2008 I had no idea I wou ld have to be here this long. My son said mom I will get a job probably in two or three months so you won't be here long. I just smiled as the economy was so bad.Its now 2011 so who knows what lies ahead. right nopw I am just glad to finally get the blasted referral to a wound specialist next week.right now I am going to write that book about what all I have been through.wow.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
Hi Hatley. Sorry to bring up such a touchy subject. I know about you wanting to get out of that home, and live independently with your son. But like you said, the economy hasn't really picked up. Same situation here. Maybe that book that you're going to write will be your ticket out of there! Goodluck.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Jan 11
I am doing things to progress..it's just that I don't know exactly where it is that I am progressing to. There will be things that I am doing now that will be finished in 5 years. Actually two but that's well within the 5..lol..I wish I knew what I am preparing myself for.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
I think you just need to sit yourself still for a few moments, and clearly think what you want, or where you want to progress to. And then you could evaluate yourself at where you are now, to that objective that you want. Maybe that's all you need to get youreself prepared. Thanks Jen.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
30 Jan 11
It is a very interesting thing to think about. Our family is working right now on getting all of our old debt paid off. So, right now we aren't able to save for the future, but ultimately we are putting ourselves in a better place than the place that we were in in the past. It isn't easy to do what we have to do right now to get through this, but I know that when we come out of it in two years that we are going to be much stronger than we were when we started.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
Just think, if you continue doing what you're doing for 5 years, not only will you be out of debt, but also financially ahead in terms of savings! I think that is something great to work at. And it is good that you've defined it, and you've made it concrete by a having milestone in two years. Goodluck!
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Jan 11
I would like to think that I would be 5 years ahead in that length of time. Anything else would feel like life was standing still and I was just spinning my wheels. We all need a goal to motivate us.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
Yes, but have you set yours? I think it would be great if we could define our goals and write it down somewhere we could regularly see it. This would really help motivate us. Otherwise, like you said, we'll just be spinning our wheels. Thanks.
• United States
28 Jan 11
I sure hope I'm ahead of the current life game five years from now! I generally set goals by the day, some for the year, but have never planned farther ahead in time than a year. Daily goals I'm good at, yearly; well, depends on what life dishes out! I've a couple of goals for 2011 that I am doing what I can to bring to fruition and I have high hopes I'll meet these goals. As for five years ... Heck, I'll set one right now ... somehow, some way, five years from now I want to be living in sunny south Florida instead of cold and gloomy (in more ways than one) central Ohio.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
I think it takes a bit of practice. Starting off with daily plans, and progress your way to yearly plans. And then when you really get good at it, then you can make 5-year plans. And when you achieve your goal in moving to sunny south Florida, don't forget to change your username to awholelotofsunshine.
@ravi110 (21)
• India
28 Jan 11
im 20 just now. and i think its the best time for me to plan my 5 years of ahead for my better future.watever i`ll do now will affect my whole life in a large way.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
What I wouldn't give to be 20 again, and to know all the things that I know now. And to be able to re-plan my future. You're right! Plan yours, make it concrete. You'll be glad that you did when you get to 25. Thanks and welcome to myLot!
@sanijas83 (270)
• Latvia
31 May 11
Sometimes I think it is not possible to do everything what is planned. Definitely there should be thoughts what one is going to achieve in the life. If I wish to have a new apartment in the future, I should mind this aim and strive hard to achieve my wish. But if something happens that I have not expected, perhaps I have to think just how to live the current day successfully, because the future might make changes in the life whether I wish it or not.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
3 Jun 11
I know what you mean sanijas83. Sometimes things don't come off as planned. Life throws you curve balls just when you think everything is ironed out. Thanks for dropping by.
@dodo19 (47050)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 Jan 11
I certainly hope to be ahead, in 5 years from now. Sometimes, this is something that is difficult to say for sure, but it's certainly something that I hope for.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
I think hoping is one thing, doing something to get to that goal is another. Defining your goal would help make it measurable and achievable. I hope you got your ducks-in-a-row, and have plans on reaching your goals. Goodluck!
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
27 Jan 11
Five years from now, I will definitely be ahead...my past will be behind me, and I will be loving life even more than I am now.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
That's a great attitude! If only it were that simple for me. I think I have to work on mime to make sure that I'll be ahead at that time. Thanks.
• United States
27 Jan 11
Five years from now I would hope I would be ahead, at least this is my goal and intention. Sometimes life hands us a bad hand that even with carefully planning we somehow remain in the same circle. I am sure that five years from now I will have enough to look back at and say, thankfully that was over and now on to my next five years.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
Sometimes I do that! Whenever I am in a tough situation, I would think to myself, 5 years from now, I would just laugh about this situation, and I'd say thankfully that was over. It helps me gain perspective. Thanks.