Do you "BURN" your money?

Italy
January 30, 2011 11:09am CST
When I was an adolescent i had the TERRIBLE bad habit to burn all my weekly pay that my parents gave me doing shopping and going out with friends. But now that I've grown up everything is different: i have to pay my univsersity and a rent (360€ monthly!) and other vital things...Yes, at the end of the month I still have money to spend in my spare time but I strongly believe that it's better to invest it maybe in something online that could generate higher profits! How do you spend your money? Do you have the same bad habit I had when I was younger?
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@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
30 Jan 11
Fortunatly, no. When I was living with my parents, one of the things I did was went out to breakfast 5 days a week. I even had an excuse. I couldn't eat at home becaiuse I had to wash everyhing b efore leaving and that could make me late for work - and did one day. Hey, it was only $5.00 a day. And I would leave early and avoid the rush hour traffic. Then I met someone, we bought a house together. I thougtht five dollars a day, that's $25.00 a week. That's $100.00 a month. No, I'm going to need that $100 for the mortgage. In 2008, I lost my job. Before that, my girlfriend lost her job and was outt of work for 6 months. I was out of work for 2 years. Despite that, partly because of my savings and just being good with money and largly because of un employment benefits, our house never went into forclosure, in fact we continued to pay over the minimum amount towards the principle and we never missed a house payment. It can be done. you don't have o be one paycheck away from being homeless. If you bring home your paycheck and don't putt at least 10 percent and preferably more, you could be headed for problems down the road. I still go out to breakfast - one day a week.
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
1 Feb 11
no, not once a day, once a week. But i need breakfast once a day. I just cook it at home.
• Italy
30 Jan 11
you still go out breakfast once a day? wow...I had to cut my breakfast down, i didn't even like it. Better for me LOL
@petersum (4522)
• United States
30 Jan 11
I was like you many years ago. I haven't really changed but now it's more a case of not having enough money to burn, or indeed ANY money in the last year or so. Everyone told me to save, but really, I could never have saved enough to buy a house which is the only thing with real value. Looking back, I'm glad that I didn't save because that money would have become virtually nothing due to inflation. I, at least, enjoyed that money at it's true value. Investment does sound sensible, but I have yet to find any scheme that consistently beats inflation. Sometimes bad habits can save you money, or prevent you from wasting it! It's just not the way that most people imagine.
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
30 Jan 11
Yes, but it was because i saved when I was younger, that I was able to get a house. And there is no better feeling, lett me tell you! With all the bills, all the extra hard work, all the sacrifices you have to make, it is so wortht it.
• Italy
30 Jan 11
Hi petersum, this is a very interesting statement! I don't invest in financial things since 2008 financial crisis opened my eyes on how "virtual" is money nowadays. Anyway I've heard very sad stories of families who lost a whole life savings because of banks failure. So I'm really glad you had the chance to enjoyed your money at it's real value! A house it's a very important good.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
I guess a lot of us had burned our money when we were younger. We were very carefree and didn't put too much value on what we had. We just kept on spending like money grows on trees. It was really a bad habit and I envy those who, at a very young age, are already aware of the value of money. How do I spend my money now? With frugality. But once in a while I treat myself by buying something expensive.
• Italy
31 Jan 11
well, I would say you act the "normal" way...You don't spend too much or more than you actually have and sometimes you treat yourself fine. If you saved money before it's not bad i guess :)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
I never burned any money for my entire life. Maybe when I was young, I would cut its sides up to just 2 centimeters. I signify money very much even when I was still a child. I know I story of a student who was studying to the school where a friend of mine used to work. My friend told me the story. She said she saw the child during the recess time in front of the trash bin. When my friend walked closer to check what was going on, she saw that the child was cutting a pack of paper bills. My friend was shocked. Then she asked why was the child doing that. The child said that those money are products of crime. His father was a corrupt politician. That child really had a very much different way of thinking from his father.
• Italy
31 Jan 11
What an interesting story, Blacksun...it really make me look good at the future! It's nice to know that even a kid is able to get the difference between good and evil. I don't how many ADULTS would have acted like that kid, i'm quite sure they would have kept the money!
@zills66 (1419)
• Saudi Arabia
30 Jan 11
not only burning by means of over spending it but burning in the sense that i smoke.
• Italy
30 Jan 11
ok, when you'll smoke you money could you please let me know what it's like? LOL
@zills66 (1419)
• Saudi Arabia
30 Jan 11
lol
• India
31 Jan 11
I still do this. Not always, but when I do get extra allowance, I tend to really spend it. But when I'm on my normal allowance, I tend to live like a pauper. So I guess I can qualify my occasional splurging. But I'm trying to teduce that habit and focus on investing it instead.
• Italy
31 Jan 11
I appreciate your honesty :) and I really hope you'll manage to change your habit one day!
@emilie2300 (1882)
• United States
30 Jan 11
When I was younger I really didnt have a lot of money my allowence was $2.00 every 2weeks I think that is sad.. As far as now with this economy its hard to have any extra spending money left over after bills are paid off because things have gone up in the society..
• Italy
30 Jan 11
yeah emilie, I know how you feel...sometimes it's hard for me to buy even food :/
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
30 Jan 11
Not at all, but I used to be more careless when I was younger, I will admit that. Now I budget and everything, so I guess you could say I am quite the opposite of that, LOL!
• Italy
30 Jan 11
you're a wise girl then! good for you, budgeting and self control make a person a real adult :)
• United States
31 Jan 11
nope, i save it to spend it wisely. it will pay off in the long run instead of wasting it on less important things
• Italy
31 Jan 11
that's exactly my own thoght about money; I mean, it's in money's nature to create profit in the long run...I just wish I undestood this before...LOL
@Lizabett (59)
• Australia
31 Jan 11
When I was younger I didn't have an allowance. Every bit of money I had I earned by doing actual work (I had chores too, but we had a mortgage that needed paying first). My first cd payer and cd I spent 14 months washing all the cars in my street once a month to earn enough to buy it. I travelled overseas with school but I sold about 5000 chocolates to pay for it :) Now I'm older and been a student myself I did struggle (student life is really hard when you pay rent and fees and have no support from anyone else) But I'm glad to say I have no debt! I also have my own credit card and use it very often but again no debt. I thank my parents for the way I was brought up, otherwise I'd be in a really bad situation at 21. And now I'm starting my first real grownup fulltime job with the thought of owning my own house buy the time I'm 30. I reckon I can do it and my future kids won't have to deal with their parents working both day and night and having to miss out on the bigger school trips because they didn't manage to sell enough chocolates.
• Italy
31 Jan 11
I also would like to be able to grow my kids up with no problem, but above all with enough time to dedicate to them. With a safe job it shouldn't be a problem, I guess :)
• Singapore
31 Jan 11
No, I'm trying to save for a new guitar.
• Italy
31 Jan 11
oh good for you...are guitars expensive? Im asking you because i played the piano and wanted to buy one. Geez, i went to a music instruments store and the "cheapest" was something like 6000€!!! I hope for you guitars are way more cheaper!
@89986128 (33)
• China
31 Jan 11
a lot of college students have this bad habit .they usually spend theirs money just a moment at the start of one month ,but they will very worried about the last time in this month ,they'll very regret about what they did before but the next year they do like the past ,aha ,just like this ........
• Italy
31 Jan 11
yeah I know what you're talking about...I've lot of friends who never stop complaining about their studies costs and meanwhile they spend all their money in expensive clothes and things like that. They will never learn :/
@jrlcentral (2601)
• Roxas, Philippines
30 Sep 15
For quite a while I had been practicing the 100%-30%=70% rule. Meaning once I get my salary I deduct 30% for my savings and investments and spend the rest for my needs.