I want a clarification for this torture from my sister in law..?

@srikool (936)
India
January 31, 2011 6:45am CST
My sister in law(brothers wife) is not from a nice family. basically they main job is politics.without a clear idea we made this before 6 years..from that time my sister in law threat my brother like anything..within 10 days after marriage she wrote a letter like brother asked a car as dowry ..then she threats everyone she will die..like tat ..the same torture happed to another family who married my sister in laws sister..after 3 years that family divorced..so now my sister in law wants to stay that sister also in my brothers home..my brother not allow it..so now my sister in law tells to everyone she will die..before that will write a letter ..in that she will mention my name(his hubby sister) and my mom name..how can i face this problem??my brother loves her very much..at the same time he cant tolerate his tortures..they are having a baby..so we all think about it..but her mom only think her family..in her family first is a boy,after two female ..boy does not working...her father is a drinker..and also these ladies wont respect him.. everything decided by ladies ..i want a solution in any way..like family way or police court like that..and also she telling she will complaint about me and my mom in the police...i can say ..i didn't do any wrong in their life...now she havin some chat history with my brother..in that my brother was tellin ..his mother in law and sister in law came to his home and torturin him(all time tv in full sound,noone carin about his baby,no happyness in home for him,there is no food for him) like tat..for that i replied opposite to his sister in law ...even though i didnt tell anything wrong about my sister in law..so now she shoin this as a proof..i can tell nothin wron in that..i want a solution for this...please help me ..im pregnant now..she only make me to feel bad..
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
1 Feb 11
Hello Srikool, Nice to see you back after a long time. I am glad to know about the good news. How old is your pregnancy, take nice care of you by eating healthy food and staying in a peaceful atmosphere. Where are you now, in your home or in Delhi? At the same time sad to read the character of your sister in law. I felt that, threatening you people is one of her hobby. I felt for that baby what will be the future of that innocent life. I think you better to stay away from the arguments. She needs counseling and I think it is possible by approaching a family court. Else talk with elders in the family and ask them to do something to solve the problem. Somebody should talk with your sister-in-law and make her understand the consequences of her behaviour.
@srikool (936)
• India
24 Feb 11
first of all thank you so much for this caring on me...im fine now..my fetus too..now in 15th week ...im very happy to see your post...everyting is going normal in my life..now days even im not thinking about her(sister in law)...family court and all not possible to her..b cos my brother love her and also that child..and in my family all are very good in character...so they try to manage this problem..they wont think about separation and all...in this my part is better away from all problems...now i hope i cant change anything in my brothers life..mom,dad, other brothers are to take care of this..so y im ...thanks for ur repky onece Again...
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
3 Mar 11
I am glad to hear from you and good to know that you are caring yourself, that is the need of the hour. Take good care.
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
Sounds to me she has some serious mental issues. I don't believe she'll kill herself just for a car, though. That's stupid.