New Month, new hope

United States
January 31, 2011 8:54pm CST
That is what I heard from an online member from other social networking site. Well, actually, that is pretty good encouragement, and a bit of optimism for me to consider. Today, I actually came to my ex - girlfriend house, and she call me to pick up some of the stuff from her house. She still refuse to see me, I guess. When I arrived in front of her apartment, she only sent her mom out and bring my stuff. Her mom told me that she is in shower, that is why she couldn't come out. I understood it. Last month, while I came by her apartment to pick up a check for her, she also sent her sister out to pick it up. It is totally understood, and I won't force to see her in person. Anyway, I will leave it behind, what is bygone is bygone. New month, February, it should be a fresh start for me then. All stresses should be gone.
4 responses
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
I agree. All that's happened in the past month is over and done with, and instead of bitterly looking back, we could look forward. Actually, I'd even go to new day, new hope. That way, I could always look forward to tomorrow. I think before I go to sleep at night when I've had a very frustrating day. So sad to hear about you and the ex. I hope things work out well for you and for her.
• United States
1 Feb 11
For me, it is considered done. And I won't go to see her again. At least she won't worry about seeing me or anything like that. I might consider not change my phone number and she won't have to keep my old number like that. I just have to move on right?
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
Yep, time to move on. And, at least I think you don't have ill feelings for each other, or at least you don't have ill feelings against her. In time, healing will come.
@jodylee (968)
• United States
1 Feb 11
Good for you for respecting her right not to have interactions with you at this time. I hope February brings you wonderful things in your life. Letting go of the past and moving forward to a future of happiness is a great thing to be doing right now. A positive attitude brings a positive outlook on life's obstacles.
• United States
1 Feb 11
Even though I force in to see her, that won't bring her any happiness. It would be too much awkwardness. So, the best thing to do, I have to let go of her. Maybe she would be happier. I will be moving on, and do what I want to do.
• China
1 Feb 11
i'm very sorry to hear of your break up, i wish you can take care of yourself. I am really agree with you. not only every month, every week, i told myself that everyday is a new start. the day after tomorrow is the chinese new year, the Spring Festival, so it will be the new hope of the new year. i got the first job of my life one month ago, after this vacation i will go to work. i hope everything will be fine.
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
Yeah, we can even start with a new day. I have been through several breakups already since I'm not really the perfect guy and I know what you're going through. Just knock up 6 cans of booze and you'll be fine.