Chat mate OR Soul mate

India
February 1, 2011 9:25am CST
I got a married lady who was my chat mate earlier. She is married with 2 sons and husband working for one company. She mate me twice and heartily wants me to be her soul-mate. Can anyone tell me what is her meaning for soul-mate?
3 responses
@zandi458 (27954)
• Malaysia
1 Feb 11
A married woman and wanting to have you as a soul-mate? Don't get confused, she might only be fantasizing and only implying to have you as her soul-mate in the virtual world. Many people are building castle in the air and dreaming of having a lover in the virtual world knowing well that they are fully committed in the real world, they are only trying to make believe something they can't get for real. Bear in mind the cyberworld is full of rubbish floating in the air so what transpired in the chatroom is only for entertainment.
@niairen01 (1018)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
I totally agree with you zandi. Although there are some cases that people actually find true love by means of cyberspace, it still doesn't mean it works for everybody. And of course it depends of the situation!
@zandi458 (27954)
• Malaysia
1 Feb 11
You are right niairen, since the birth of internet, many people have shifted their priorities to dating online and many have met their soulmates and living happily. But a married woman, mind you not divorced, looking for a soul-mate is only giving the other party a false hope.
@niairen01 (1018)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
Maybe she's just sad and having difficulty with her marriage. Seeking someone to comfort her and since internet, being a convenient tool (no personal connections, long distance, uses code names etc) she is actually safe! I don't want to judge here, but it's really not a very good act. especially that she is married. If she wanted to just play around and vent all her distress on the net, she could have just said that she's single! but alas... no...
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@buli23 (550)
• India
2 Feb 11
I think soul mate means the relations from the deep heart. I think you should know her at first very well then you can go forward.
@niairen01 (1018)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
Soulmate is someone who is actually bound for you! Destined to be with you... but most of the time they don't actually end up together. I don't know about you, but She is a married girl and for crying out loud got 2 sons! What do you feel about her? Do you also like her the way she does? I suggest you distance yourself with her before your relationship as friends deepened into something more.