Court orders husband to give his property to wife who lives with her boyfriend.

@SHAMRACK (8351)
India
February 3, 2011 1:30am CST
As more and more family cases are coming up and also family courts, it is seen that there are lots of people living with the family issues and cases. But majority of cases here gets decree one sided that is favoring women. Last Monday a man killed his wife, as the reason he said was that he is not willing to give his life long made property to his wife who wants it to live and enjoy life with her boyfriend. But the unfortunate part is that these couples have a 4 year old daughter. The court had given the custody of child to wife’s relatives. More over I feel there are also many women who are cheated treated badly by their husbands.
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@Sreekala (18769)
• India
3 Feb 11
Hello Sham, I laughed after reading the title and I don’t know the reason for my laugh (I am sorry for the wrong expression but I am helpless). The sarcasm goes towards to the Law only. I feel pity of our jurisdiction. The lady cheated her husband and enjoys her life with her boyfriend and the Law is providing the property of her husband to this lady. Is our Law is blind folded then I don’t have respect for the same.
@SHAMRACK (8351)
• India
3 Feb 11
Law and order I feel it is totally far away from practicality.
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@suspenseful (40326)
• Canada
3 Feb 11
I do not think immorality should be rewarded. I do not think the man should have killed his wife, but it woud never have come to that, if the only reason to divide the property was if both parties had worked for them. If she had not contributed to the house, the house should have remained with her husband and the court should not have taken it from him so she and her lover could have a love nest. And why are not the huband's family looking after the child?
@SHAMRACK (8351)
• India
4 Feb 11
We do not know what the back story is, may be just the killing reason we know through news.
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@suspenseful (40326)
• Canada
5 Feb 11
I know that here in Canada, we have reports of a few ex husbands who are not allowed to reduce their alimony and child care payments when they lose their jobs. It seems that here it is set in stone. I do believe that the right parent should get the child and also he or she should allow them to have the non-custodial parent to visit. So I think there is more here that we do not know about. I suspect that not only did she was going to get his property but also that she did not let him visit the kids and used that as leverage.
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
hello shamrack! that is definitely sad. The law should treat both gender equally. I agree that many women today have taken advantage of their special roles in the upbringing of their children and even in society. Many women, like men, do cheat on their husbands and partners, and often gets away with it. I can understand to some extent why the husband did what he did. It was truly very hurting to turnover all your lifelong savings and properties to your cheating wife and her boyfriend. Life indeed could be cruel and the law could even be more so.
@SHAMRACK (8351)
• India
4 Feb 11
Law is nor justifiable, it mostly becomes a part just for punishing rather than rectifying the problems.
• United States
3 Feb 11
Well, well, well. I think this is an interesting topic. Most people who have had experience in court with a divorce will understand why she was awared the house. Her personal business(boyfriend) is not a factor in determining if hse gets any property. We must remember when we read things like this that alot of facts are not being shared with us. At the same time, who set the standards for which this judicial system operates from. Although the thought may have been to bring peace it really just brings confusion. Honestly, if people would communicate more with each other being rational and with all the emotions and the drama that comes with that, then the court system won't even be needed for things of that nature. The saying is the child pays for the sins of the parents, so sad for the 4 year old.
@SHAMRACK (8351)
• India
4 Feb 11
At times courts turn places for making money for many who get involved in such cases.
@Hatley (154938)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Aug 12
hi this sounds wrong but again there are many men who do their wives out of money just because she and he can no longer live together. I think both men and women should play fair not cheat on them nor on the financial split up as many tjmes men lleave the woman nothing and she has to fight him for child support. men like the fun of making them but not the responsiblity of caring for the children he helped make. if a man has to play do not marry any one and do not father children. fair enough I think
@SHAMRACK (8351)
• India
4 Sep 12
I feel the law and order that is at present could have modified or amentded in more better way.
• United States
4 Feb 11
I can totally understand why the husband would be so upset to give up so much of his property to a cheating wife. Your details are very limited here so we are not going to get the whole story. This is understandable based on the forum we are all using. Nonetheless, I cannot condone the murdering of the woman. I hope that man is brought to justice to taking her life as well as taking the law into his own hands.
@SHAMRACK (8351)
• India
4 Feb 11
May be when justice is denied most people take law in their hands.