would i make friend with him again?

@fabjonah (140)
Philippines
February 5, 2011 5:41am CST
i have a friend before, a best friend, i would say coz he's one of my buddy and confidant. however, at one point of our friendship he betrayed me. so i decided to take him out of my life like 4years already. just recently, through a common friend of ours, he asked my number and texted me. i replied once, coz his not on my contact list but when he stated his name i didn't replied until now. if your on my shoes, how would deal this situation?
4 responses
@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
5 Feb 11
I am proud of yarn, maybe a little more. And I think I would be hard, unless it's something insignificant, probably yes. I usually do not give 2nd chance,and if I forget, there would never mean what it meant to me once. I would not give further confidence,my attention, and even if I forgive, I would never forget. I can not say exactly what would I do if I put in this situation,because until now I'm not disappointed,not betrayed me, I knew my boyfriend chose well. I hope to be this way and from now on and not betray my confidence that an agreement is not so easy,especially if I lost someone once, second time no longer agree.Have nice a nice day!
@fabjonah (140)
• Philippines
7 Feb 11
the act of betrayal was very significant. in fact when i recalled what he did, i thought of not talking to him again.
@masang (295)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
Maybe this time, the hurts still there. But I believe that time heals wounds. Forgiving a person who had betrayed you is a process and is not that easy. But remember, you can only moving on unless you decide to forgive and forget. I'm able to say this because I was betrayed not only once but many times. But I'm proud to say that I've forgiven all of them because I became very sickly due to my unforgiving heart. After I decided to forgive, all my sickness were gone. I thought, i would not be free of those hurts. Now I'm moving on.
@jalucia (1435)
• United States
5 Feb 11
If he was once a good friend of mine I would go ahead and test the waters. I would respond to him, but with caution. Keep your distance at first, and see if he has changed. If there is a way to get back into a good relationship with him, go for it. Maybe you guys can talk about what happened. Good relationships are hard to come by, and not without their ups and downs. However, you may find that you guys have outgrown each other, or that he hasn't changed, or that you guys can't be friends. This is ok, too.
@fabjonah (140)
• Philippines
7 Feb 11
maybe, il take your advice. il give it a try... a 2nd chance! hope everythins' will be fine and hope he really changed!. tnx tnx...
• Philippines
18 Feb 11
Its hard but maybe that friend of yours want to reconcile with you. If what he did is not so serious and you've already moved on, why not give him a chance. It's nice to live with no enemies, just friends, and lots of them.
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 11
I'm definitely sad that clear. but we also see what circumstances make it betrays us. if strong reason then we must understand the circumstances let's see from his perspective. what would you do if you become him.