Valentines Day
By Sailor
@Sailor (1160)
United States
February 13, 2011 12:46am CST
I have a Girlfriend, or at least a somewhat relationship. Anyway she asked me what did I want for Valentines Day. I told her nothing, she told me she wanted to get me something because I am always doing for her. I told her my actions are from the heart and since hers wouldn't be and she doesn't feel the same towards me I did want anything Was I wrong?
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3 responses
@sparky3dfan (599)
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13 Feb 11
If those were your words although I wouldn't say you were wrong as such I would say you were maybe a little bit harsh. From what you've said though you do have a good valid point in my opinion a gift should be something (for occasions like this that is) that are from the heart of a person not just because you always do things for them. Maybe she didn't choose her words correctly and you just took it wrong, id talk to her and just explain what you meant better if you want my honest opinion before the relationship goes sour over something silly.
@Sailor (1160)
• United States
13 Feb 11
I pretty much agree. But I tend to date those very strong women, and in this case she loves to overtalk people. So having the understanding conversation wouldn't hapen. I mentioned it to like this so it would get through to her especially since she is always the one mentioning about how each of us think.
@divyangshukla (400)
• India
14 Feb 11
i think you were wrong
its ok that you feel that she doesnt love you the way you love her.
but when she wants to gift you something that means she realise that she is somewhere behind you and so she may b wanting to a step forward in the relationship.
so even you should not take step behind rather you should be with her.and my frnd believe me she will feel very happy if you let her do something for you.
that what i feel.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
13 Feb 11
We can only express how we feel about something. Being upfront and honest from the heart is something that can't be wrong. Perhaps your words will be an inspiration to the one you love.