how can a hard worker enjoy in life, who has no leisure

@midhib (53)
Bangladesh
February 14, 2011 2:57am CST
hi i want to know the possible ways for a hardworker people like me to enjoy his life. i have no leisure time. sometimes i use mylot to discuss with different people. this is not refreshing me. so i want to know the other alternative ways. i am a man of lower middle class. so i have to work more. do u know the possible ways to enjoy for me?????
5 responses
• Australia
14 Feb 11
i am so baffled by this issue. For a better life, we have to work hard and spend most of time on our jobs.the pressure of life force us to exhust our passions to work hard. everyone want to have a extra time or have a relax time with his family or friends.actually, they do not have a absobute chance to enjoy.we know we shoulder more things in our life. but we don't want to be squeezed by the stress. for me, maybe i will have a small drink or play some sports to enjoy in life. i think this is a easy and possible way to release yourself.
@midhib (53)
• Bangladesh
14 Feb 11
i appreciate u, for ur nice and explained advice.
@SIMPLYD (79635)
• Philippines
14 Feb 11
Don't be too hard on yourself. In the evening , if you have a partner, you could share your day's event to each other. Or you could watch your favorite shows on TV. It's up to you to enjoy what simple joys life give you.
@midhib (53)
• Bangladesh
14 Feb 11
that's cool advice from you and thanks.
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
Don't take work too seriously, time-wise at least. Only alot the right time with your work and put in reasonable amount on your leisure, like family, friends, etc..
@peavey (16587)
• United States
15 Feb 11
It sounds as if you might not be spending your leisure time effectively. If you spend time here on myLot but it isn't refreshing, why not? Would you rather be doing something else? Or maybe you need to discuss different topics? How you enjoy life is up to you and whether you enjoy life is up to you, too. What do you enjoy doing? If you don't know that, what have you enjoyed in the past? Think about if some of those things would still be enjoyable. Many things don't take much time and many more don't take money. Talking with your family, taking walks, learning to discern the weather, bird watching, cooking, reading... so many things you could do with just a few moments here and there.
@doggydimon (1379)
• Philippines
14 Feb 11
First of all if you know that you must work and work for you to survive, you should be at least in a job that you really like. So it would be less stressful for you when you go to work knowing that you like what you are doing. To enjoy life doesn't mean that you have to have more of what you have. Just be yourself, and learn how to relax even with a little amount of time. I bet you still have time to rest for a while when you go home, don't you. Spend that little time to relax or do what makes you happy. If you want to watch a movie every now and then, then do it. Or sometimes when going home, take a little detour. Take another way of going home that will change your scenery a bit. For me sometimes that works. Or sometimes do something different from time to time. If you are used to having your food delivered, try cooking once in a while.